So, with an idle mind I often come up with questions.  Well, here it is.  I feel as if I am a respectable guy but there are just some things when it comes to hobbying that can't be beat.  Instead of going out to a bar and getting drunk and trying my luck there, I feel like when I am in the need this is a whole better process.  I don't have to balance my drinks to where I am feeling well enough to approach an attractive girl to actually express some interest and the point where I am overly confident and make an ass out of myself.  Sometimes that's a one to two beer difference which can be pretty sneaky.  

Anyways, in my limited amount of encounters on here, I often wonder what the other side is thinking.  I know I am the one paying for companionship but I also feel better as a man knowing that the other person enjoying it.  Should I be worried/paying more attention to the other side or just make sure I am getting mine?  Basically, what can I do as your paying companion to make your experience more enjoyable?  I feel like part of my satisfaction is based upon mutual satisfaction instead of me just ramming it home.

I post this in the San Diego section because that's where I am and also where all my encounters have been.

Questions? Comments? Concerns?  Or am I just being a guy with his nuts tucked back?

Not only are you guys blessed with amazing looks, but both posses a certain awesomeness.  Regardless if you gals are replying to my posts in order to drum up business or are just nice and trying to help a guy resolve a question, I respect that.  It shows initiative and for two of a kind to reply... well I am flattered.  Even though I have yet to meet either one of you,  I am a fan

Hopefully, we will have the pleasure of meeting you sooner, than later darling! Smile 4 us!

Hello there,
Since you are paying, you are entitled to get yours, as you put it.  However, I think most clients enjoy a mutually enjoyable experience more than a one-sided affair.  It seems that you guys learn early on that if your own pleasure will be heightened as much as you are able to make your woman feel good, sexy, and turned on.  I have learned this from listening to my male clients.  I believe it because I have seen the truth of it over and over again!  
If you lay back and let me take care of you, I will, and I have with other clients.  But it's more mechanical, less creative, less intuitive...there needs to be some reciprocality for a sensual encounter to be all that it can be.

chemistry is absolutely everything. I've been with maybe 6 provider total - and the experiences that are the most fulfilling are where we get to enjoy each other. the others are just completely empty. I may be fooling myself - but my time and money follow the chemistry over looks or services or price