I have a younger sister in SD very nice girl and she has recently approached me about my business and has expressed an interest in trying providing I would not want her to do this unless it was something she embraced and truly though she might enjoy herself,she is in her late 30s so old enough to make her own choices, she is single and has not had much luck in the real dating market,I have been helping her out and the exta money would be a great help, how do you gents feel about a newbie provider she would have to start as an outcall and I would vouch for her as being an honest person,any advice would be helpful of course her pricing would be less due to her lack of experience but I am a highly rated provider and would try and give her good advice, she is very cute and has a nice figure,but I do know you need much more than that to be good at this profession, let me know if anyone would be interested you may PM me or writ eyour thoughts here and no we would not be working together that is way too wierd after all I was raised a good Catholic girl LOL ask Billy Joel about that one LOL Thanks again everyone Victoria

Victoria,

I suspect she would be welcomed by the community in SD though she would have some of the same problems of a newbie hobbist, no references.

Wishing her the best,

MH50

Hi Victoria,
Well, my sister is a provider in S.D. and got me started when I left a hillbilly husband back 5 yrs. ago, I had to start with nothing, no home, no lingerie, she helped me so much, got my website going for me, pictures, and some of her known clients to see me so I could get reviewed.  And I've never looked back, I love this business, it's more fun than I would have ever thought before getting into it back then.  And I miss all of my S.D. clients so much, they were the best, maybe you're little sister and I could do doubles, and you and my sister could do them together, now that's working together, ha, anyways, I'd help her, just make sure she is safe and knows a little bit going in, and that she really likes to you know, have some fun, she'll be just fine. Love Kristi

As long as the provider is not a ripoff, good looks/nice figure is 99.99999% of the requirement to be successful at this.

If she is at least decent looking (and you indicate that she is certainly better than average), her odds are pretty good in SD.

The fact is SD has approx. a 4 to 1 ratio of single men to single women (predominantly 'male' fields like military, biotech, engineering being the reasons for this), so tell your sister to not give up and to perhaps change her game plan a bit and to continue looking in the "mainstream" market!

A change in game plan may include looking in different places, not expect a man to be 'perfect' or super rich, etc.

I say this because it does sounds like she has not quite given up hope of meeting someone for keeps.

Thanks everyone I am overwelmed by the response so far I have no photos yet of her I want to wait and see how she does first kinda keeping her UTR until the reviews come back  to me....she does however have a phone # set in place which I will share with you....please have your references in order I would hate to have anything go wrong with her being a newbie....thanks again everyone I am making plans to come your way to play sooner than I thought am going to shoot for around March 10.....and stay a couple of days and see how my sister is doing maybe give her some tips.......

as regards to references and not having any that are posted it will be a matter of getting that first review in place several gents have already said they will write one if she requests one and anyone can check me out and see my reviews and how long I have been around so I consider myself a reference as far as her not being LE which is what a big part of refrence process is all about staying safe......Victoria....PS she wants to use her real name Dawn Marie,decided she did not want to pretend to be someone else I quess we are both alike in that sense so please welcome my sister Dawm marie ,Dawn have a great journey and mostly stay true to yourself......love your sis Victoria

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Ness you are so right, we all long for romance I am a hopelesss romantic at heart and if she can find that special person I would be happy for her .....

I say this with luv and not to be the bad guy.
I guess I'm on the mixed emotion flip side of this. I personally would never aid a family member into something, that could possibly put them in harms way. (On any level) I would prefer to help them with extra money myself.
I've never been able to help friends, or friends of freinds. When they asked for help into the biz.
The money always looks appealing. It's hard to see what it really takes unless you've been there. I figure I see the big picture. Not to mention how I would feel if they ran into any of the pitfalls.(Legal, abusive clients, etc.)

Yes, she's old enough to make and be responsible for her own decisions. If her mind is set. Then I agree with the rest of the group. That with your help, she'd be more then welcomed and do very well. I've also heard of men seeing sisters before. I don't think that is odd at all.
Just my 2 cents..
J'
PS. There are a number of girls and guys around that are very helpful. So she always has back up



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I'm sure her sis can't wait to see you -- do you charm all of them that way?

Or at least try (e.g., take some lessons).  Golfers tend to be good people, and most are men.

If she hangs around the nicer courses her chances of a good catch are even higher.

Funny thing here is our family has been in the golf business for over 30yrs my folks just retired.We love golf and your so right golfers are wonderful people,heres a golf joke for you putter16 2men are golfing ahead are 2 women playing very slow the one guy says geez this taking forever,where are their golf manners they should of waved us through I have half a mind to go say something his buddy says go ahead if you feel that strongly off he go's gets about half way down the fairway turns around and says I can't go up there that's my wife and mistress playing oh SHIT says his good friend tell you what you stay here and I will go and say something so off he go's gets about halfway turns around and say small world isn't it? Golf is great but with sex you always get a hole in one putter.....Victoria

I wouldn't presume to advise on the emotional/personal/familial aspects of what you propose.  Someone with much greater emotional intelligence than your lowly correspondent will have to counsel you on that.  As for the biz in SD, perhaps things have changed but I found SD to be a lot like DC in the bad old days--lots of Rips, LE on the prowl and a generally hobbyist unfriendly city.  So what does that mean for your protege?  I simply think that there are better places to get a good start.  LA or OC come to mind.  The provider community there seems to be well developed, there are lots of ladies I've met there who are actually quite welcoming to other ladies and the cities themselves just have so much to offer by way of things to do. And for a new provider there are lots of inexpensive but safe places to live in places such as the SF Valley, the beach communities and even Santa Monica.  If she's committed to SD fine but I just don't think it's the place to be to start out in this profession.  It also seems to me that you would be more likely to throw her an assist in LA given your familiarity with that town and some of its hobbying community.  My 2 cents.

thank you phunhog, I am really going to try and keep her safe bying  doing her screening and giving her my best advice maybe after she has more confidence we can bring her to LA to meet all those wonderful guys .......always respect your word of wisdom phunhog thank you

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Hello AZ,

She is the perfect age for the clients in my studio.

thanks I will pass it on to her  you guys and ladies really are wonderful......PS she has her first real date tonight and he seems like a gem.....Victoria

She will do fine.  You are sisters, she probably has some if not most of the same wonderful qualities you have.  Haven't met, or even seen a pic, but she sounds like a sweetie.  Just do things, for her like you would do them for yourself.

Fred , ladies another one of the good guys from PHX.....thanks dear.....

One good joke deserves another.......

A nun goes up to Mother Superior and says, "Oh Mother, I've been a bad girl, I cursed at the Lord."  
Mother Superior: "You must have been playing golf, tell me about it."
Nun:  You know that long par five, I hit the best tee shot of my life, but it hit the overhead power lines and came straight down."
Mother:  Well that's a free replay according to the rules, so you're still on the tee, no reason to be upset."
Nun:  I wasn't upset then, I went to my ball but a squirrel picked it up and started running away."
Mother:  Well, that's an outside agency according to the rules, so you would be entitled to a free drop, but you're still operating under the first rule, so you're still on the tee!"
Nun:  Well, I didn't curse, I chased the squirrel and just as I caught up to him, an eagle swooped down and carried him off with my ball too."
Mother:  Well, that's pretty unusual, but it's another outside agency, but again, you're still under the first rule, so you're still on the tee if you so choose!  But I can see why you might be getting a bit upset by now."
Nun:  Well, I was a bit bothered, but I bit my lip, and watched as the eagle flew up near the green and dropped the squirrel out of his mouth.  The squirrel landed on a rock, and the ball bounced out of his mouth, rolled through a greenside bunker, and came to rest only 18 inches from the hole!"
Mother Superior took a drag from her cigarette and a swig of her whiskey, rolled her eyes to the heavens, and said:
"Don't tell me you missed the goddam putt!"