ok

so this is a general question for ladies/gents:

why say "is it okay if i review you" and be excited that i like to post "new review" on ads but then never submit a review?

reviews help us as ladies as well as u gents.
not that i expect every guy who reviews to review every lady they see, just curious as to why you say "i am looking forward to reviewing you" then no review...

something i was pondering for a few months.

cheers

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First reason could be that his regular life got in the way of his hobby life.  Put it in perspective.

Second reason could be that he knows that You - MilaTequila - are very opinionated when it comes to almost anything including reviews.  Remember this posting -

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=7&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&SearchType=1&Author=milatequila&DayFrom=300&DayTo=0&MessageID=61617&frmSearch=1#61617

so whatever a client says after a date is suspect.  Ho Ho Ho !!

first: may be = maybe
second: IHaveAReallyuGoodMemory... having search on TER board can help with memory when everything is stored and there to gaze upon at your leisure

ho-kay

real life comes into play, sure, but there is a 3 month window after a meeting to put in the review (but perhaps it was not approved and instead of resubmitting the guy just thought "aw fuck it")...

being opinionated should have little/nothing to do with being reviewed if the gent had a good time and smiled all the way to the car. i mean are u suggesting if an average/poor review went up i would have an opinion? well, of course, duh. i would be surprised as heck, but that would never happen, to be sure. so my confusion remains. what does being opinionated have to do with people (not) reviewing me? with the system a review can be posted under an alias so there is no risk of him having to hear my opinion should i be pleased or put out by the review....


more input please and thanks!

when your hard...........your soft
when your soft........your hard

Sorry, but if they do not follow threw with what they said, then why post about it?  They may turn around & post a negative, or not such a fabulous score that you can not brag about, so why sweat the small stuff?


I have a small amount of reviews for being in the industry, so long.

Out of curiosity ... why did you change your board handle?  I think if you answer that question then you have answered the questions you threw back to me...

and it has been more than 3 months since our meeting (the person I am thinking of) so for him to get vengful when he wasn't called out nor was anything mean posted so his motivation to do so would be null (lest he be a jerk but he was quite nice).


simply looking for an answer (if a good one is out there) but who knows why people do as they do.

Does this this exist or is this more of the self-aggrandization that you are known for?  If the list does exist please show us...  Post a link to the list and not some hand-written list you made up.

There isn't & if there was I would think that a CMT permit would be required & your reviews would need to reflect that an actual massage was given during the session.

Methinks it wont be long before you'll need another name change......

I couldnt agree more.  I mean here's how I look at it ... If I want to be corrected, ostracized, brow-beat, pissed on, bitch-slapped, etc.  I might as well just pay the ex-wife some money.  I thought being in the hobby was supposed to be fun?

search reviews

adjust average ratings to be between 8 and 9.9
adjust services to be SEX = NO and BJ = NO

search

average review score is posted to the far right on the list by the names

i am 8.5 and have the most reviews for non-fs/bj providing (aka FBSM weather or not a massage is involved)... there is one other 8.5 (but has much fewer reviews than myself... more reviews means i have more credibility and consistency so i am higher rated on average) and the next highest is 8.4 average.


all u gotta do is look and u will see.
i am the best according to reviews and all my fans.

now back to the topic at hand:
reviews, when do you NOT write one after saying you will.

THERE ISN'T! buuuuut... the search tool here can teach u cool things

which is how i learned i was the top! w00t!

a few things doll:

1 - how would you know if i had a CMT permit or not? having one is not the issue, but trying to make it an issue because of my awesome reviews is kinda cute.

2 - i do massage when requested but where is the rule that i must do one every meeting to be a FBSM provider? link please


no, there is no official list for FBSM ratings, but if u filter your searched to no sex and no bj you will see i am the top rated massage in the nation.... actually in the world, LOL according to TER....

honey, it's okay to have lower ratings than a massage-only (or non fs/bj --- however u like to call it) provider. it is not okay to incessantly attempt to put others who are doing well in business in a dimmer light.


maybe u can contact support and request them to require all ladies who don't offer FS/BJ to have a CMT permit? otherwise this just simply isn't the place, but your input was interesting.


MWAH stay warm this winter

I think you would be enjoyabloe to be around.  NOT!   Fortunately, I would rather spend my time at the dentist getting a root canal.  You have a horrible attitude.  Maybe your services make up for it but not in my world.  Good luck to you and I am happy to see you are at the top of your made-up list.

and honey, guys that spend this much time blogging are likely not my type anyway.

guys that work for a living and don't get emo about blogging are my kind of quality dates, not high school-esque guys with too much time on their hands and a vendetta against some poor girl you don't know and who has done nothing to u.



as i said there is no actual list BUT i am still the top rated massage-only (non fs/bj) provider on this earth according to TER so neener-neener-neener :P heehee

i'm not gonna let u get to me! bwahaha! i am rising above lalalala...
mwah

A lot of regulars on this board comment how "dead" it is but many of those same people are so unfriendly in their responses that it prevents any kind of real open dialogue with the entire community here. You can see from the number of reads there are hundreds more people reading posts but none of us want to participate nor are we encouraged to by the constant snarky replies by many of the few regulars. I've been on this board since before many of you could spell TER and am top 100 in reviewers should you doubt my validity.

I find this thread particularly irritating that Mila started what seemed to be a very basic thread / question and it ends with her being slammed wtf! I dont care that TER hasnt created an official category for FBSM. I have to give Mila props for doing the research and using the few tools that TER has provided to all here that she is the number 1 rated provider in her specific nitch. There is no reason to slam her for promoting that fact within the guidelines of TER. As an entrepreneur and small business owner myself I would do the same thing if it was me. There are limited areas in this hobby to market yourselves and TER happens to be one of the best ways she or other providers can do this and being the top in her specific category is definitely something she should promote. Kudos to you Mila - hang in there.

Go ahead start slamming me - I expect nothing less........

Actually Karma, I have been around here probably just as long (if not longer) as you back when TER was a gleam in the Blue Pond eyes.  At any rate, I wasn't slamming Mila.  If you want snarky remarks then just read her responses to most any thread.  She is a smart-ass and many times for no reason.  Now if you want to dismiss that, go ahead but I let all her responses stand on their own.  I am only going to bring to light what she has said and what she has done.  In a way its the old "give 'em enough rope and they'll hang themselves" as far as I'm concerned.  While I am not a small business owner I do empathasize about the marketing aspect but LETS BE HONEST.  For me, Mila MADE UP this whole 'NUMBER 1' thing by rigging the deck in terms of search criteria.  So ANYBODY can say they are number 1 in you put in enough search criteria.  So if you want to buy into her lies then go ahead but for me she's just another sub-par provider thats hyping her game.  Mila - Here's some more rope ...

This Board isn't dead - you want to see dead?  Go hang on the OC Board for a day - do you hear the crickets?  chirp chirp!  I'd offer a moment of silence but on that Board the silence lasts for days. I love SD!

BTW, well said OS.

Harley is tops every time I check.  Where is Harley?  Ok I see her on another local SD board she is one discreet, classy lady!

Why would you assume I do not, like Mila?

I have always been helpful to Mila as far as I can remember.  Back when she was apart of another SD board, which she has been banned from.  We sat next to her at the LA M&G.  For you to assume makes no sense to me at all.  Either way I am an adult & I can respectfully, agree to disagree no dislike needed.
I am bi-sexual, so I love to meet the ladies, and yes I have my own personal preference, so I can agree to disagree with the 9's & 10's that are handed out, like free candy canes during Christmas.

Marking plays a BIG part in the posting process, so kudos to Mila for thinking she's #1.  Where would we be without our ego's....