Have you ever been surprised after you opened the front door and stepped from behind it and saw the gentleman standing there? If this has happened to you how did you react? Also, did the experience exceed or fall short of your previous expectation of him? This should be interesting!

Yes I have and I was very surprised lol but he fell short of my expectations lol real short

My dad tells me this all the time, and it works.  What is interesting is that you posted this in hopes to get an honest response, but the truth is not very many will respect our candor as providers.  I jump through hoops to make sure there is chemistry prior to us wasting our time, and you your hard earned $.

I suppose it happens to the best even on a bad day! LoL

Good answer! I think this is a two way street, I just wanted to see it from the ladies perspective. If there is chemistry prior to the door opening than both parties benefit from that immediately. You are right I wanted to get a honest response and I appreciate yours! Not all ladies will take the time to ensure the encounter will be mutually beneficial.  

Why "doggy" is the preferred position of 9 out of 10 providers!

I believe "lower your expectations" would be words for any provider to live by. I don't imagine they have too many Prince Charmings walking through the door. However, I had a conversation with a now retired provider re this subject. She told me in all the years she had been an ASP only 3 clients came through the door who were sort of grotesque. Her philosophy was to always find something good about each person she serviced. That enabled her to last in the business for a number of years.

so she is still stuck seeing me even in doggie!

I think "Her philosophy was to always find something good about each person" could be extrapolated to life in general. They win and you win.