Want more of a PSE? Try this...

I agree with Humpinsomethin, "One mans PSE is another's GFE".  So true.

Everyone's definition of PSE seems to vary.  It seems like when I have an awesome PSE it has more to do with the level of the clients participation than my ability to do PSE.

It's difficult to "turn on the PSE" with a client who wants to lie on his back the whole time.

I mean no offense to the guys who want to be pampered!!!  I don't mind taking charge one bit.  And that's probably what I will do unless you assert yourself a bit, because I want to take care of you and entertain you.  I don't want you to have to do anything you don't want to do.  

But a high energy PSE takes two.  

For you guys who would like to have a more lively session, try to get more involved in the session.  Spend at least half of the time actively engaging in an activity, giving instead of just receiving.  Make suggestions and requests.  I think I can speak for us all when I say, we like that.  If you tell me what I can do to give you a better session, that is very welcome information.  Switch up the activity or the position every 5 minutes or so.  Go back and forth from sex to oral sex and mix kissing in there, too.  Be comfortable giving and receiving and do plenty of both