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cravingmb See my TER Reviews 1865 reads
posted
1 / 26
So, what do you do?

When someone writes a total fake review about you? Is this fair or right?... A guy texts me at around 6pm and books an appt. for 9pm. He contacts me at 8pm and says he must reschedule for 11pm that nite. I agree. Then at 9:30pm he texts again, to ask if I can do 10pm. I say no bc I've already made arrangements for 11pm. He then says, could I hurry up bc he's nearly in Del Mar where my incall was. I said I'd try, but I was finishing eating. So I arrive at 11pm and need long enough to change clothes and freshen up (brush my teeth, put lip gloss on, etc) 10 min. at the most. Called him to come to the room. He comes in, and immediately says his car is parked on the street, should he move it... well, duh, who parks up on the street, YES, you should move it. He leaves, and never comes back. A week and a half later a review shows up saying I give an ok bbbj, which made him move right to doggy to finish up quickly. The worst part, that I look over 40 years old!! I mean, there's nothing wrong with being in your 40s, I know several beautiful and super sweet and cool women in their 40s, but seeing as I'm only in my very early 30s, I do not appreciate this!! I also feel like this review could really drive a lot of my business away! This isn't the case of an inaccurate review, it's a complete and out-and-out LIE!!! So, I looked at the reviewer's profile and the close to 50 reviews he's written. There are several almost word-for-word identical as mine. This leads me to wonder, has he done this to others?!? It's simply just not right and should not be allowed in my opinion. What do you guys think?  

 
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SD_Guy_2865 26 Reviews 1565 reads
posted
2 / 26
Advice...

I feel awful for you. I cannot believe that anyone would resort to lying like that.  

I know that I try to be as truthful as possible when I post a review. Granted, I do my best to not let my emotions or hormonal rush dictate what's said in it.

I think that you should let the administrators know about this liar. Should they be unable to help you, then I say put the guy on blast! Warn others about him.

I hope that this helps you.

FK619 8 Reviews 976 reads
posted
3 / 26
he said she said -e-

Posted By: cravingmb
When someone writes a total fake review about you? Is this fair or right?... A guy texts me at around 6pm and books an appt. for 9pm. He contacts me at 8pm and says he must reschedule for 11pm that nite. I agree. Then at 9:30pm he texts again, to ask if I can do 10pm. I say no bc I've already made arrangements for 11pm. He then says, could I hurry up bc he's nearly in Del Mar where my incall was. I said I'd try, but I was finishing eating. So I arrive at 11pm and need long enough to change clothes and freshen up (brush my teeth, put lip gloss on, etc) 10 min. at the most. Called him to come to the room. He comes in, and immediately says his car is parked on the street, should he move it... well, duh, who parks up on the street, YES, you should move it. He leaves, and never comes back. A week and a half later a review shows up saying I give an ok bbbj, which made him move right to doggy to finish up quickly. The worst part, that I look over 40 years old!! I mean, there's nothing wrong with being in your 40s, I know several beautiful and super sweet and cool women in their 40s, but seeing as I'm only in my very early 30s, I do not appreciate this!! I also feel like this review could really drive a lot of my business away! This isn't the case of an inaccurate review, it's a complete and out-and-out LIE!!! So, I looked at the reviewer's profile and the close to 50 reviews he's written. There are several almost word-for-word identical as mine. This leads me to wonder, has he done this to others?!? It's simply just not right and should not be allowed in my opinion. What do you guys think?  
   
   
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cravingmb See my TER Reviews 929 reads
posted
4 / 26
Re: he said she said -e-

Not really. Like I said, if he would've just written a bad review that I took part in, I'd deal with it and move on. However, this is NOT the case. This man was in my room for all of 2 minutes, and he never even as much took his shoes off. He never even walked more than 2 steps passed the door.

IHeartLV 10 Reviews 1405 reads
posted
5 / 26
What is TER's policy on bogus reviews?

I'm a newbie here on TER so I'm not sure what TER's policy is of removing a bogus review, but I'd be interested to know.  I'm sure you've looked into it, but you made a good move, IMHO, by bringing attention to it on the SD board.  

I looked at some of his other reviews and you're correct in that they do seem suspiciously familiar.  

In the long run I don't think it will hurt you as your other reviews are stellar.  It stinks that it happened but I'd chalk it up to the randomness that is out there (easier said than done to be sure).

Keep your chin up and the worm WILL turn.  Good luck.  :)

Erictheactor1 1228 reads
posted
6 / 26
Lame

I just read a review he did on a provider we have both seen. This provider in reference does not provide uncovered services. His review stated she did. Fake reviews are lame.

SurfNaked 18 Reviews 1254 reads
posted
7 / 26
Re: Lame

I agree....if the admin could PM the guy that posted the review to ask him why he would post that if he never stayed...I bet the guy wouldn't even reply which would lead the admin to delete his review.  Like with anything on the Internet...there will be people that post great things and there will be people that will post a negative....when there are several GREAT reviews and one A-hole, people can figure it out that the one negative is more about the person doing the review.  You are hot and sexy so don't let this A-hole get you down!

Antonio2010 151 Reviews 1373 reads
posted
8 / 26
You're doing the right thing....

I think that you're doing the right thing by getting the word out that this is a BS review.

Continue to push to have it removed.

Lastly, just so you know, it would not stop me from seeing you!  You have way too much
other positive info out there that prevents this junk from getting in the way.

This too shall pass!

sympathyforthedevil 57 Reviews 787 reads
posted
9 / 26
could be a tough one to fight

He has a pretty solid review history with a lot of well known providers so unless you have some proof it may be hard. Good luck.

steven25 21 Reviews 871 reads
posted
10 / 26
yes difficult - but give it a try

Hi Lady! He saw a lady I have seen with whom I had a great time. Out of her 33 reviews he gave her the lowest score of all. She is a fun and super hot lady and how he could score her that low and have such a boring time with her beats me. Keep trying. Wish you luck and I guess you will need that :)

FK619 8 Reviews 747 reads
posted
11 / 26
which is the "she" said...

I am sure he has a different story.  If the review is bogus, work through TER channels to have it pulled.  If they won't pull it, working the Public Relations spin on this Board honestly I don't think helps your case.  When you have a long list of good reviews, I would let one rotten apple slide.  Guys look at the sum of your recent encounters, not just one guy's opinion.

lickthestick 903 reads
posted
12 / 26
he's a pathetic lapdog!

Look at his reviews and scores. He evidently has an agenda. Just goes to show, you cant trust the whitelist, they are only given for high sores.

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GoldieKnox See my TER Reviews 986 reads
posted
13 / 26
Re: he's a pathetic lapdog!

I bit my tongue a while but there are similarities in the "he said she said" stories so I feel the truth is somewhere between the review and what MB has posted here.

By her own volition she admits to not getting to her location until the time the date was set to begin and also admits she took time to get ready saying it was not more than 10min but the reviewer claims 40. They are both in agreement that she was late which gives the reviewer a pinch or credibility. The rest of the stories don't appear to line up but from my seat regardless if the review was honest or not the date started on a bad food by being late (wether it is 10 or 40 min you admit you kept him waiting).

Now, that is out of the way I can tell you one low score isn't the end of the world even though it feels like it. I find it unlikely TER will remove the review considering there is not really any way to prove you two did or did not have intimacy or if he left. The best advice I can give is to try not to dwell on it and wait for new reviews to come in and bump that one to the next page. Chin up and try to stay positive. Keep providing great services and your reputation will be fine  
Posted By: lickthestick
Look at his reviews and scores. He evidently has an agenda. Just goes to show, you cant trust the whitelist, they are only given for high sores.

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Todd Kavonic 11 Reviews 761 reads
posted
14 / 26
Re: he's a pathetic lapdog!

High sores? That is a pretty funny typo but we all get your point.

I asked for two whitelists when I was starting out here, but have never asked for one since. They just appear and it's sort of annoying. Any thought given to maybe I want someone to NOT whitelist me?. I don't need it anymore at this point and frankly, it falls into the indiscreet category. Let me know first if you want to whitelist me and we can go from there.

But yes, dudes changing plans on you on the fly is not okay. I had a provider that was routinely 1 1/2 hour to two hours late. It didn't really bother me because I always run late. But we always settled in on a location which didn't change. I guess you just have to get to know the person well sometimes and see what they can deal with? Or the guy needs to understand what you can deal with. It's a strange tap dance.

Normally, it's a lack of communication that creates most of the problems. Although that guy sounded like a "pass" to me for a provider.

He evidently has an agenda. Just goes to show, you cant trust the whitelist, they are only given for high sores.

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jsymthe 23 Reviews 833 reads
posted
15 / 26
Consistecy

I think the most important thing is if it proves true that he is literally cutting and pasting reviews. I doubt his review status would stand under those conditions.  If that is all true the other matters are really irrelevant.

cravingmb See my TER Reviews 831 reads
posted
16 / 26
Re: I whitelisted this gent...

Hey Jez,

   You know, when I was reading all of the reviews he wrote on others (after he didn't come back), I saw the review he wrote on you and the one he wrote about your gf, Rosalyn, which btw, were very nice!! ;) I knew he had to be legit after reading those. Immediately after he left my place, I sent him several texts saying things along the line of, you know, I'm not mad or upset or whatever, bc you left. I just wanted to know why, and in a jokingly manner, asked for some constructive criticism. He never responded. I just thought maybe he liked a certain kind of girl, and I definitely was not it!! Which is FINE!! I watched the SD discussion boards for days thinking he would post something about why he left, but nothing ever came up. I really would've never thought he'd go as far as to write a review made up from his imagination. I don't doubt one bit that you guys had a great time together, he's very nice, cool, etc when he likes what he sees, however, if your on the other end, careful, careful!!  

Thanks for your input Jezebel,t along with everyone else's. It's just weird.

bbqboss 125 Reviews 821 reads
posted
17 / 26
Re: he said she said -e-

maybe he looked at you, your beauty and sexiness overcame him, he shot it in his pants, was embarrassed and left???? NAH, probably not.

Posted By: cravingmb
Not really. Like I said, if he would've just written a bad review that I took part in, I'd deal with it and move on. However, this is NOT the case. This man was in my room for all of 2 minutes, and he never even as much took his shoes off. He never even walked more than 2 steps passed the door.

4outof5doctors 2 Reviews 713 reads
posted
18 / 26
you are not always an angel yourself

but you definitely do not look 40. I guess everyone can have an off day-both hobbyist and provider

cravingmb See my TER Reviews 1401 reads
posted
19 / 26
Re: you are not always an angel yourself

I DEFINITELY am NOT claiming to be an angel. I just wanna say one more time, if this guy would've seen me and wrote the review that wasn't stellar, I'd be perfectly fine with it. I agree with everyone that 1 review can't or won't really make or break a provider. I'm just pissed off that the review is fake!! If I wrote a review on myself and submitted it under another hobbiest name, I'd be banned for writing a fake review. So, why should anyone else be able to write a fake review? That's all I'm saying. BTW, I'm a very far cry from an angel.

cravingmb See my TER Reviews 725 reads
posted
20 / 26
Re: you are not always an angel yourself

And I'll just let it go, I didn't wanna drag this out, I just wanted a few opinions. I'm woman enough to take a not so great review, like I mentioned before, I just wanted to point out what I thought was wrong with the whole thing. Thanks y'all for your input.

priscillaredhot See my TER Reviews 741 reads
posted
21 / 26
Re: which is the "she" said...

Its going to happen…bad reviews, bad experiences… If it is just a one off it doesn't effect much. I don't want to say develop thicker skin but not everyone is going to adore you… It is hard when you feel you provide a stellar experience.  I understand. Someone said I looked like a painting in a review a few years ago and it still haunts me. I wrote to him, admin, etc…its just his opinion.  I offer my sympathies and hope you can just brush the dirt off your shoulders… I am sure you are wonderful!!! Forget him, forget the ONE negative review…I know its hard! X

puterbaugh 1 Reviews 971 reads
posted
22 / 26
based on my experience with CravingMB

I've only seen MB once before. We had a mishap on our scheduled appointment. MB made it up to me and went more out of her way than any other provider I had met to make things right. So I guess I believe her story. Now if I could just connect with her again! I have some unfinshed fantasies I need to take care of.

anomalycutie See my TER Reviews 697 reads
posted
23 / 26
common issue on every review board

It happens, not cool in any way but it does happen.  
They assume we have soo many reviews that we won't notice a fake review as long as it has factual consistent details about other sessions in it. They don't realize that we might actually remember the night in question or the fact we don't even own the outfit they spoke of.  
Many gents get a pat on the back from other guys for bedding as many gals as possible, same goes for hobbyists and how many reviews they write.  
The worst offenders are those that study a ladies style on several boards before writing a review- my regulars caught a fake review years back because the guy mentioned certain color outfit and how I disrobed specifically- those two particular things and regulars of mine knew instantly it was a fake review-it was a nice high marks review actually, but still very fake!
Appreciate your regulars, they are your watchdogs for exactly this purpose, they are also great for flagging fake ads when someone steals photos. This business is rare in that stalkers are our best asset in most cases. That means they deserve their cookies when they find no nos too lol
The worst part is, the offending false reviewer banks on the good girls being to busy to notice, and the bad girls to be so happy with good review they stay quiet. The other gents only notice if there is an unusual typo or weird menu option, most don't read close enough to notice he copied and pasted three reviews together to get his bro points up with the homies lol. Once they get their review numbers far up there they are revered and sought after for their almighty opinions whether they are false and simply studious observers of their prey or they simply seek the numbers ratio utilizing their unintended & unknowing gun fodder  
Its a sad part of the review system, however even with the flaws in the system, its still better than no review system at all. At least this way we can tell when they are fake right?
alert admin and let them know- if you're complaint is legit it will be considered. They are pretty impartial here at ter and the mod's are quite up to date on the latest review schemes guys play. I say if its really false don't trip- alert admin and keep things moving right-

cravingmb See my TER Reviews 514 reads
posted
24 / 26
Re: he said she said -e-

hahahahahaha, thanks. actually, i found out exactly what it was that happened. i think i'd rather had your story though!!

thefanatic 22 Reviews 581 reads
posted
25 / 26
It's been done before

Fake reviews have been removed in the past. Contact Admin and offer to show texts and email. The hobbyist should be able to show proof that the meeting occurred. Like a text of the room number, etc.

GoldieKnox See my TER Reviews 614 reads
posted
26 / 26
"I found out exactly what it was that happened"… do tell.


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