Do nice spas/massage places exist here in SD. That offer extras or are they primarily mini-mall places? If they do where are they?

Unfortunately I YES!!

She is among the worst very close to being a rip off

I think he was trying to be “funny” and sarcastic about you going to see Krissy again because he responded to your other post about her 😭😎

I would rather have a root canal being done while hanging upside down than see that Con-artist again

They are everywhere.  Cfs. Bbfs. Daty. Bbbj. You name it

Sugar spa  
Unique foot spa  
Qq spa  
Mira mesa day spa  
Balboa wellness spa  
Aroma spa  
Etc

You mean Mira mesa wellness?

I keep seeing the spas on RM that are highly rated and offer FS, but what I really want to find is a place where I can get a teasing table shower, then a nice, sensual teasing massage, and a non-rushed HJ. FIA a bonus. Some place where some old broad with all the experience is doing it. The further South the better.