My phone number was initially listed on my TER profile, so that info is out there even if it has not been listed on TER for a while (and in fact, where it was listed most recently may have something to do with the review - I've been successfully filing DMCA complaints due to unauthorized use of my photos on illegitimate ad sites, and I suspect those are run by a hobbyist). I hope a phone number alone isn't considered proof that he met me. He will not have any of those juicy email exchanges, though.
I'm the one who is super sensitive about smoke. My dates who've seen me in public know I avoid smoke like the plague.
I've never been on an outcall where I stopped for a drink first. I'm not a teetotaler, so I will occasionally share wine or a fine Belgian beer *with* a date, but only during a date, and even then, I don't get drunk (I drink for the taste and am only a light drinker).
This date absolutely didn't happen at all. I know who I've emailed and met. Maybe I've been lucky, but I've really enjoyed my dates, and I have confidence the feeling was reciprocated (or else my dates deserve Academy Awards). I've said this before, but I actually can remember every person I've seen (remember I'm new and part-time!)... and most are repeat dates, so the number of new dates for me is limited. I know this date is completely fabricated and is definitely not the result of some strange misunderstanding.
Now it's just a waiting game for me to see what additional info TER requires.
Thanks for the helpful advice.