How many friends she has seen' in a week?
Yes, I have been asked.
The notion seemed to be that someone in my position shouldn't care about such a question. They wouldn't ask a civi', but it's alright to address me that way.
I felt it improper regardless. I think every female should be treated like a lady.
(Respect gets respect)
I would love to hear your thoughts.
Please be kind...to me and one another. I know opinions vary...
Kisses,
Jai


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That's a horrible question to ask a lady!  Ranks right up there with some providers (not YOU, Jai) who have asked me, "Are you married?"  That sure puts some tension in the room fast!

But the subject has come up in conversation with provider friends, but most of those girls see some pretty high end clients who wine and dine them for days or weekends at a time. Definatly not an assembly line situation.

I certainly would never ask a potential new date how many clients she sees, and would think that would be a major turn off to the provider, and probably a deal breaker if she is in a position to carefully choose who she sees.

NSF

I am just curious about a lot of things so have been tempted to ask but also realize that it is none of my business. There is obviously some level of truth to the fact quantity impacts quality which is why I almost always go with early AM appts (easier to explain to the SO also)

However, I do have a good friend who is a provider, and the topic has come up in conversation in the past. She's always been the one to bring it up. I never think about that when I'm with a someone. To me, when I'm with that person, she's all that I focus on, and I hope she's doing the same to me.

Never considered asking. What's the relavance of this question? Frankly, it's no ones business anyway.

There is no point in asking the question and it is rude. Why not just dwell on the present?

And without using a spoon!

I don’t really think it is my business to ask that question of a provider.  

I suspect that some guys feel it is more acceptable to ask a provider that question than a civvi because it is a less emotionally charged question than asking a civvi the same question.

1. If a guy asks a provider that question he is being nosy but it is probably not an emotionally charged question because everybody knows her business is escorting guys.

2. If a guy asks a female acquaintance that question then he is being insulting as well as nosy and is likely to get a response like “What kind of a woman do you think I am?” or something nastier.

3. If a guy asks his girlfriend that question then he is probably accusing her of cheating on him, which is an emotionally charged accusation.

In any event IMHO it is not appropriate to ask that question in cases one or two and if you are asking that question in case number 3 then the relationship has some problems.

Yes, I would ask... and actually I think it is the hobbyists business. I personally will not see the girls who see multiple clients per day. I simply choose to be this way. On the other hand, the four women that I see on a regular basis are not even reviewed here (they dont want or need the advertisement)and they only see 1-2 clients per week.