How come every time I find one that is a keeper for a regular series of visits, they turn into a flake or worse.

How do some of you guys that keep a sweet little pocket listing that is not well known, find them.

I would like to find a sweet little thing that is reliable and will be around for a while that I can count on for several months and not have to do all the serches, and LE and SO avoidance techniques?

Were is she at?   Any good examples please PM me, so I can try them on for the right fit.

SJ1

our "established" providers who can provide a great LTE experience.  It doesn't have to be some inexperienced newbie.  You also wouldn't have to deal with the LE and SO avoidance, as long as you are up front with them.  It depends on what you want the most...reliability or newness.

and perseverence. I visited just about 18 ladies b4 I found a real keeper. Now I know what to look for and have found 3 of them.
Just keep visiting and enjoy the ride on your journey.

Some of the ladies still haven't learned "It's not about the money".  

IMHO, it's about the connectino you make and the services you each provide to the other.

So you may be working at cross purposes.  She's "snatch & dash" and we are left with our wallets emptied by some of San Diego's finiset con's.  PM me for names if you need a hand.