Imagine sitting down with you fiancee and having a heart to
heart about this issue.  Close you eyes and really visualize
the meeting and what will take place.

Now imagine her kicking your sorry ass to the curb.

Of course it's cheating!

DTM

Sorry Euro men, you time is up.  When you said I do then your fun time is over.  Girl had this psychic feeling and she will know that you have been "eating out" without her and soon the divorce paper will fly in.....

Give your fiancee permission to do as many gentlemen as she wishes also.

  YKSY.
P.S. I hope you are not spending much money on the wedding!

Go to brazil and It wont be Cheating. all other parts of thr world it is even if you are in a different country.

There are two ways to look at it. Eating aint cheating and what she doens't know won't hurt her. The other side is being "hooked" may be another term for addiction. So you may want to try backing off and see how you feel. If she finds out, chances are you're throuhg. Unless she's really open minded. Only you know your heart.

I've heard....

that "Eating Isn't Cheating"

could work....

You could either look at it this way..if you were doing (whatever) with another woman, and your SO walked in the room, what would her reaction be?

Or, you could simply ask beforehand. Honey, if I wanted to DATY with another woman, would that be ok, or would you have a problem with that and consider that cheating?

Either one will give you the answer. Or, consider if she were doing the same. What would your reaction be, and would you consider that cheating?

Why would you want to embark on the most important decision of your life with DECEIVING as part of your intent and relationship? I can't understand why people do this all the time?? Have relationships where they hide things from each other! You should marry someone you consider your best friend, true love and life partner as well as sexual partner. And if you think you can't enjoy monogamy, you better be open about it NOW and deal with it! Choose someone with whom you can be open an honest about what kind of sex life you want in your life - FIRST!
I can't say that I will always want monogamy, but I CAN say that I will always be true and FAITHFUL and HONEST, and that if I wanted to f**k somebody else for whatever reason, 'he' would know about it FIRST! Any life partner of mine deserves that FIRST PLACE seating of respect and honor.