I can certainly understand why someone who has seen her would write a lengthy paean to her substantial charms.  

Her screening is more rigorous than some guys wish to submit to, and she has been known to reject people based upon their use of lousy grammar in their e-mails.

The fact is, if she'll see you, you should jump at the opportunity.  But if she won't see you, don't feel too bad, as by no means are you the only one.

If I was a guy that wanted to see her I'd certainly do everything I could to make her feel comfortable, and that would be to give her all of my professional information and to be neat and clean with the first email.

If you make it easy for a legitimate, excellent lady like Essa, I would think you would be well rewarded.

Again, she's no dentist! LOL  I love that line that a friend uses.

Good luck, guys!

xoxo
Elise