ARRRRG!  This happens just toooo often after they have gone through screening so nicely!  It is so frustrating!  So not necessary! This is soooooooo funky!  And a very small example:
Feel free to pipe in ladies:

Hi Jenni,
Thank you for the note. I am in San Diego now and am very much looking forward to our time together. Is there any special "preparation" (ie "grooming") I might do to enhance the experience for you?

Thanks,

Mr. Get a clue
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Hi Mr. Get a clue,

Thanks for the confirmation.  Errrr, re: grooming, hopefully you would do what most people do every day.  Why would you ask such a thing?  Please be cautious, as I really don't like certain references.

Jenni
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Sorry Jenni,
I guess it was a potentially difficult question.
See you Friday.

Mr. Get a clue
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Dear Mr. Get a clue,

After giving it some thought, I have decided to cancel our date.  You have put me in a very compromising position by asking inappropriate questions frankly.  Since I really do try very hard to have a nice dating scenario, I feel that it wouldn't be as much fun as I am really quite offended. I expect to be treated like a lady.

Actually, I am going to modify my entire web page because, when people do this, I truly have lost a fair deal of planning and this affects things more than you would know.  Having to cancel you is neither fun nor beneficial. I am a very hard working, honest and serious person.  I advertise as an escort.  Not a prostitute.  I don't care what you think you read.  Some reviews are possibly real (in theory perhaps), and some are not.  When I choose to extend my date with someone because I liked them that is because they have treated me like a lady and that can lead to more intimate relationships with the gentlemen I choose to DATE.  So why would you need me to advise you to shave your balls or "unusual area" when we spoke AFTER I asked you not to talk that way in e-mails?  Tell me, do you always ask women these questions?  If so, I would suggest you learn more about dating etiquette.  I have learned that frantic approaches like yours generally turns out to be unsatisfying for both parties.  

By the way, do you know that with that silly approach (not once but twice!), leads me to believe that if you are not trying to set me up for something dreadful, then you are someone who can easily be set up for very unpleasant scenes.  

I hope neither is the case.  Be safe and warm on your travels.

Jenni


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"I make small talk easily but get the big picture." We know what this means. I put that in my ads, and people have to jump several hurdles before they even get to my verification page of my website, I give them access when I feel more comfortable. If for instance, they cannot recall where they saw my ad, then I honestly cannot help them out. If they say, hey, are you available, or I just have to see you, write in CAPS or boldface or send me attachments: no way, Jose. I know a lot, about a lot of things, and with the exception of economics, I could talk ad naseum about their professions. Even in economics they understand flow equations....so I could nail that one too.  If they say they are a doctor, I ask them about partial pressure volumes of lung capacity, because I know about medicine, you name it, I can tell if they are faking it in about 20 seconds. See ya guys next week. So who wants to lick Bush? Sorry...could not resist. My political affiliation is on my website, that was merely a double entendre.............

Here is what really makes me laugh.  Jenni, you have many pages of reviews that go into explicit detail.  You have also posted some very 'telling' (more than just about grooming) info over the years on this board.  

Remember your thread that you started a few months ago asking the question about 'What's a girl to do when she is on her period?'

Yet a guy asks you about 'grooming' and you cancel.  Too funny!

As far as I can tell, Jenni offers her time and companionship for a fee.  Might get together with someone and talk about politics or theology, have a little dinner, play some chess, dance the fandango or whatever.  It might be that sometimes she meets someone in the course of her work and something more personal develops.  That happens to lots of folks in all kinds of businesses.  Could be that some of those she meets write reviews about Jenni here.  She probably can't be held legally accountable for what someone chooses to write about her, especially when it's "fantasy, for entertainment purposes only".  She also can't be charged with anything for posting to a fantasy discussion board.  But it might be a little different situation when someone whom she has never met contacts her requesting her companionship and starts obsessing about his genitals.  Are Jenni's aesthetic opinions about shaved balls relevant to dinner, chess, chat, or the fandango?  Some ill-intentioned people might want to try to make the case that Jenni's willingness to discuss shaved balls prior to a companionate meeting implies that she is offering something illegal, like prostitution.  You or I may differ with her assessment of the level of risk, but she is entitled to be as sensitive as she wants to be, and she is not being remotely irrational.  Just my opinion (and why do we so often write that when it couldn't possibly be anyone else's opinion?)

Posting on the boards is one thing, I can understand your confusion.  However, have you ever been taken for a ride?  I have, and less was said during the set-up process.  As I said, this is so common it is unnerving.  Probably at least 2 dates a week are canceled due to this sort of approach.  It is SO not necessary.  The lines are so numerous it is crazy.  "My wife doesn't take care of me", assuming you will, "I'm waiting for our date and titilation and anticipation of our TGE is getting me so horny".  The list goes on.  You have no idea.  My intention is to hopefully get the point across that none of those sort of things are necessary.  And, as I said, there were other requests for same evening that are often lost because I had already scheduled someone who was doing fine.  Then last minute they start blabbing and spouting off such things that really are offensive honestly. I like to treat my dates as that, a date.  Would any of you ask a woman you were scheduling out for a date such of a question?  I would cancel that out regardless if it is as an escort hired date or not.  It is totally incriminating, and tacky, and tastless.  As a matter of fact, I did give one warning, the second offense was done in the confirmation call.  Elegant Elise spoke of this very recently and I completely agree with her.  I hope this message gets out to some who might learn by it.  Relax, take it easy, I have a reputation for very good dates.  Don't say anything to me you wouldn't to any other woman you wanted to have a nice time with and yes, possibly experience splendor in the sack!  Geez...

I get to air out sometimes too!  Hmmm, we have a full moon tonight don't we?  LOL

Jenni

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Jenni,
   You have a right to cancel on any notion you feel relevent.  If it doesn't feel right, don't do it.  Please know that there are still some gentlemen around, especially those from Texas.

Some laws exist to protect people's rights.  Others purely as appeasement to a vocal minority.  It's ridiculous, in a democracy, when police enforce an appeasement law that protects the rights of no one.  What exactly does "freedom" mean again?

her we go again. another guy stepping up and defending a provider for a meaningless misunderstanding. first of all jenni was wrong end of story fact. second jenni should of responded telling him due what you like. and as another budy of our wrote jenni has posted much more revealing comments on this board. in the end who cares

In spite of the fact that Jenni and several other highly rated escorts screen their clients heavily, their approach doesn't appear to give them any assurance that their clients will be legitimate/not LE, etc.  It's obvious that escorts screen by 'rote': follow directions  1 -10, and the client just might be ok!  Do any of these heavy screeners have any valid life experience or intuition to draw on?  Both Jenni and Elise, two of the most diligent screeners in SD, have both been busted at least once!  Heavy screening will only take an escort so far if she can't or won't use her intuition!!

If a client has provided the in-depth screening information these ladies demand, (they know where the guy works and have references from numerous other escorts), this simple question about grooming is easily answered with one word,’ shave'!!  Does responding with the word 'shave' constitute an admission that they are offering sex for money? Again, if these escorts had really figured out how to operate in SD's LE climate, they would not have been busted, would they? This type of small minded behavior should give a warning to hobbyists to avoid Jenni and her cohorts like the plague. If she can screen heavily, continue to be so tight-lipped in her communications with her client, and still get busted, so could be busted also you if you choose to visit this careless escort!!

Thanks TERJohn....

Now YOU, well you know........  Thanks for the hand.....

Once in awhile we all go on these rants.  I appreciate your perspective, as you know.  

In the Biblical Sense of course,

Jenni

Like Extra00 said,


A PROVIDER CAN CANCEL FOR ANY REASON SHE WISHES.
PERIOD.  TOO BAD.  CALL BACK LATER OR FIND ANOTHER DATE.

"We reserve the right to  refuse service for any reason"

alias attacks - like spilled milk never have merit only a mess quickly wiped up. someone must have messed up you up pal to hide behind bushes to cast your stones - grow up get a backbone.

Hey TERJohn - I'm sorry, I didn't see any mention of shaved balls, shaved pussy, or any specifics.  I only saw the mention of grooming.  To me, if I'm not guilty of anything - I just innocently assume that the question means shaving.  Some ladies like guys with a little facial hair while other don't.  I think the response is a tad disproportionate to the original question.  The bottom line though is that Jenni (or any of her heavily screening friends) can refuse any one for any reason.

I completely support Jenny, and any other ladies cautious about who they see.  I'm sure others that have gone thru a set up, then dealt with the expense of getting out from under that would understand.  As for someone who initiates sexually explict conversion prior to a first "date", that just goes to show that money can't buy you a clue.  If you don't have the common sense to realize what is over the line or not, then the provider should cancel the date.   Not saying the guys is LE, but better safe than sorry.  I have seen Jenni on several dates, and each time I had a fantastic time, even dinner, drinks and something special that is beyond the grasp of some out there - GOOD CONVERSATION with a woman who has personality.  Use your brain and some common sense guys.  I hate to say it, but learn how to operate the big head before you worry about the little head.

So what if I am the heaviest (literal AND figurative) screener in town.  I only know two other ladies besides myself that hasn't gotten PINCHED by LE.  Not that I know all the ladies, but I know enough to be CAUTIOUS and learn from other's mistakes.

No apologies for being "ANAL" about what is spoken prior to a date.  And Jenni knows this, guys that aren't tacky are just more fun to spend time with.

The bummer is when you have to cancel last minute or when you simply cannot reply at all because of all of the references to sex or whatever that may be compromising.

So every now and then, a girl likes to remind the FELLAS that some of us are on hyper alert, because we just are not going to put ourselves in the position of having the bad boys believe that ANY ELEMENT of ANY CRIME has been committed in the course of SIMPLE DATING.  (And one BAD APPLE definitely spoils the bunch!)

So choose to date ladies that are reckless, that's fine for some, or choose to date ladies ladies that are relentless with caution.  It's really your pick, and no reason to get your undies bunched.  

Too many hotties to choose from to try to put down ladies making choices for themselves.  Unless you live in a cave.

Elise

Subtly erotic Biblical allusions?  Sorta makes me want to shave John 3:16 into my pub...well, somewhere, and ask you to come over and teach me the fandango.

Correction.  Elise has never been busted.  When I was snared, I didn't do a screening.  I have always said that.  This post had less to do with LE than it had to do with a very tacky and frantic approach which as I said in reply to him "generally ends up being unsatisfying for both parties".  When someone is putting pressure on me to assure them they will get the goods, It puts me in a mood of feeling unsafe and also as I said "It is not necessary".  I see no reason to go into a situation that has my hackles up.  Why bother?  

Honestly, this gentleman was very ligit I am sure.  But I have found that when they are so worried that they might not get what they want that they have to be assured verbally, I never get along with those types, because oftentimes these types have a bigger expectation than anyone can provide and are typically dissapointed.  This post was meant to inform those guys that it is NOT appropriate.  He was warned once and cancelled on the second offense.  

Just to let you know, I am not so desperate or hungry that I will see just anyone because they screened well.  You missed the whole point.  Often times I have to decline from the very beginning of an approach because they just don't get it.  THEY are targets by thier oblivious natures.  As I told him, he is setting himself up.

As did you miss the point pussy101.  I couldn't care less if anyone shaves their jewels at all.  I'll braid thier hair if they want me to.  The experience is enhanced for THEM, not me if they do.  ALL of my lovers do though, its true, its true!  I've got a sweet stable of shaved, well groomed guys.  LOL.  I have an idea, I should have advised him not to bathe for at least 7 days prior to our date. Mmmm Yum, yum.........:P



-- Modified on 10/30/2004 12:35:14 PM

you're really missing out.  I've seen her and she's a real delight and a sweetheart!!  Jenni has the right to  refuse to see anyone she likes, regardless of how thorough she has screened them.  She may just have an uncomfortable feeling about seeing a particular person - but htat's entirely up to her.
Jenni, you're a sweetie and I hope to see you again t=in the very near future!!

about 'grooming'.  Jenni, I don't think anybody was accusing you of being selective - although with all the reviews and 'fans' you have there is a contradiction.  Don't want to get your 'hackles up' anymore.  My point was how you jump to conclusions.

You didn't hear the phone conversation........you really don't get it do you?  It was quite clear to me in the e-mail what he was talking about.  That is because we get that kind of crap all the time.  You are only looking at it from one perspective with a very small lens.  He was warned, then got really dopey when we spoke to me to confirm rather than leaving it alone, he really blew it by talking about "some of your reviews say you like it when we shave in errr, unusual places, ya know what I mean?".  There was no conclusion to jump to.  He blew it BIG time.  

I find it interesting that so many don't understand the the intent of this thread...

I do appreciate those that do.


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...VF? A pretty transparent and petty slight(as in disrespect) in trying to suggest a contradiction with repect to being selective and yet having all those reviews and "fans". You seem to want to make an either/or argument here. Jenni can be as selective as she wants to be and still be quite popular with many reviews.

You slight her, and then suggest you don't want to get her "hackles up".

Your point? The point is you don't have a point. It's quite evident to most here that the few like you don't get it.

Beyond that Jenni is not going to be "baited" by this kind of nonsense.

Jenni is as popular as she is for good reason, and I for one do not get to see her often enough but not because she is not selective.



-- Modified on 10/30/2004 5:57:13 PM

I can't think of anyone else other than frustrated LE that would use lies about a bust and try to trash both Jenni and me in one fell swoop.

First the bad boys use my name in one of their little sting operations, having another "elise" like that's going to bother me in some way ~~NOT

Now you're posting trying to get our dates not to see us because we're ultra discreet when we date? HEHE~~

Like that's going to work.

I'm sure we're getting under the skin of the Bad Boys that can't do a job on us.  

Firstly, I'm not an escort.  Read my advertisement.

Second, You probably know this, I've never been "busted".

So, how about you take YOUR small mind with whatever pitiful life experience you have that would cause you to post something entirely false and basically libelous and either come out and prove who you are and get over your real gripe with Jenni and Me,

Or crawl under a freakin rock.

I'm not committing any crimes, so if you are LE, tell your boss that I'm just never going to meet the elements and why don't you all get out on EL Cajon Blvd over by 60th where there is plenty of action that would meet all of your criteria.

If you're not LE, then I invite you to post with your true gripe and your first alias.. Stand up like a man or woman instead of slinking around like a snake.

Elise