Is anyone, so afraid of Covid19 that they are not hobbying? I am curious because I have friends who are not leaving the house due to their age, health & high risks. If you stopped playing due to the pandemic, would you book with a provider who agreed to wear a mask, and gloves during the session? Obviously, less services provided due to the risks, so the rate would be discounted. Has anyone been concerned to hobby?
As a single Mom my safety is #1. I am interested on how everyone else feels. I live an active life. I workout, and eat healthy, but Covid19 made me have to home school again & I lost my job at my children's school. Covid19 has had a huge impact in 2020, and I hope it get's better soon. Please no shamming it's a personal choice to take risks.I'm far less likely to try to meet new friends. This is somewhat from a health-risk perspective, but more because it is difficult to create free time away from home and spend cash. With the limited free time that I have I would rather support the ladies that I already know.
As far as the three ladies that I was seeing most often pre-Covid, two I still see as much as possible with no change in our "fun" routine, and one has chosen to move home until things blow over. If she were to visit, I would see her with little concern.
I can relate. Having regular friends is a blessing during this pandemic. I am truly grateful & appreciate everyone who has contributed to support mi familia. COVID19 stay safe & healthy my TER friends.
I have seen a few new providers since the pandemic started and primarily engage in FBSM.
However if a provider decides that she wants DATY I will not through her off the massage table.
I am acutely aware of the situation but wouldn't say afraid. I'm caution and respectful. I have left the house for shopping but for the most part, for a while there was no where to go if you weren't working and "essential". My business (now also very slow) has mostly been remote regardless but with schools having been shuttered it added another level of "needing to be home" as you may know (depending upon the age of your sprog). I've only been able to get away to see someone twice since this whole thing started and its only because her incall is walking distance from my place. Location, location, location.... and an excuse to go for a walk.
Lucky you! Location is a major factor. I rise at 3 am to drive downtown to see my oldest friend who has been self-isolated. I am thinking of moving closer to him because it just makes sense. I would be having fun more if I lived closer. Walking distance is a fantastic excuse to go for a walk. I am jelly. lol
I get it...understand it is hard during these times. I still see a few ladies that I know I can go to because of the trust and bond already established...I mean sensual too, kissing, etc. Have heard from other hobbyists that some ladies are wearing masks during session...not for me! I do not care if they lady has triple Ds, not doing it! I need sensuality and happy that I have my go to gals!
...the fun life doesn't exist for me, too scared.
Since I've had a new ATF for over 10 months, she's the only one I've been hooking up with.
We've built a trust and relationship, so if any of us were to be exhibiting any symptoms, we'd make sure to warn one another.
So, I'm very fortunate in that respect.
She knows that if she's ill that it would be bad for business, as it were.
And because I care and respect her so much, if I were to come down with something, I'd make sure to let her know immediately.
I just hope that others in this hobby are doing the same - not being selfish and treating one another with respect.
I have actually INCREASED my rate of seeing the ladies! I'm going two or three times a week now (and a few exceptional weeks where I've met 5 or 6 and/or multiples per day!).
There have been a lot of new ladies working. Some have decided to use their considerable assets to have some fun and increase their bottom lines while out of work. A few have even started sending pictures of their friends and asking me if I want a date. One in particular has made it a business sending about 4 or 5 of her friends to meet with me so far (and I'm sure she's taking a cut off the top). I just leave the donation on the table and then whatever happens, happens. Some have been a little timid but others have been aggressive from the moment they enter the room! If I were a psychologist this would have been a fascinating experiment. I believe some are repressed normally but then this in their chance to just "let go" and be sluttier than they've ever been before! I am having a lot of fun with this!
As for risk; my rationale is that I am mostly exposed to 1 or 2 extra people at a time. I drive to the hotels, and I pay an attendant (who is wearing a mask) and then I drive into a private garage. Up to this point, I have had almost zero exposure. I take "some" precautions and try to sanitize the hotel room door handles, light switches, remote controls, shower/sink handles, and phone (no, I can't say I do that every time!). Then the lady arrives and she typically takes a shower and we sit and enjoy a few glasses of wine (I bring my own wine with my own stemware!).
The fact that traffic has been minimal of late and there seems to be so many new girls has kept me super busy!
I read your post & was wondering how in the fuck you could afford to increase when life has decreased, but your going to TJ. Your not paying & playing in San Diego, CA. I know how great of a deal your getting & those ladies are smoking hot!
Enjoy love!