This is not just a response to recent posts. I'm curious as to how often you leave a provider, or she leaves you, and you feel as though it was a waste of money that could have been spent better? Maybe on a DVD player, or something else. I know that before TER, I would regularly have this happen. I would leave a providers place, and start to yell at myself for throwing away $$$ on such a waste of time. Either the pic was old, or the performance just wasn't there. Either way, I felt burned. Thank God for TER.
The same goes for providers. I know some providers are willing to spend a great deal of time checking employment and even doing pre-meets. How often do you gals feel as though it was a really bad experience when all is said and done? Maybe the guy sounded good on the phone, but turned out to be a smelly pig, with bad manners. Just curious.
Please don't name names. Fot the record. Since I found TER, I have only had about 5 bad experiences. That's not bad. Usually, it was because I was expecting FS, or multiple pops, which was not offered. My fault for not doing proper homework.
One more question to providers. How often do guys rip you off? Literally. I have seen many providers that don't check the envelope, and they have very little, if any info. on me before I arrive. If I was a major pig, I could have left the envelope empty, or grabbed the money on the way out and ran like heck while she was still naked. I would never do that. No matter how bad the session was. I just hate the thought of you girls working so hard, and the possibility of some jerk taking advantage of your trust.
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Honestly, twice in the last two years, and I documented one of the experiences initially on another site and then more recently recounted it here. On the other one, I broke my cardinal rule and didn't establish a definite time/donation agreement with the lady, I think we were both disappointed.
I read the reviews where guys getted ripped off or overpay. It still comes down to doing your homework and having realistic expectations.
I have heard some of the horror stories from ladies that I know in the biz. One gal was touring Chicago, did the appointment and the client says, I need to go out to my car(how f$#%^&g inconsiderate can you be) for the money, and even invites her outside. He handed her a sealed envelope with fake money in it. She didn't check it until she got back in the hotel.
Another one(and I have heard many) was in Vegas, the guy comes in town, sees the gal for two nights, dinner and private time. When it comes time to settle up, he tells her that he lost her donation at the tables??? The shit some of these guys pull is amazing.
Now I am certainly not above trying to negotiate multi hour discounts for myself, but that's a business arrangement between me and the lady. MfSD.
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In the past five years I've felt burned, to a certain extent, with nearly every provider I've seen (and I've seen quite a few). Only a handful of those experiences have been true "winners" (maybe 4 local girls, 2 out-of-town visitors and a few YOUNG AMP girls from several years back, now gone). It's not that I don't do my homework. I read the reviews and discussion board postings, get my list of numbers and make arrangements. But I've come to realize that the ratings for providers, at least in SD, are usually so inaccurate and inconsistant that it almost makes this site useless.
I won't name names, but almost every girl I've seen is at least 10 to 15 years older than what the reviewer has stated. Also, it seems that an "athletic", "thin" or "average" body type usually means "baby fat", and "baby fat" always means "flabby" or "heavy". And as far as her overall looks are concerned? The ratings span between 4s through 8s for what inevitably turns out to be a 5 at best! Come on, guys! Open your eyes! I know that it's all a matter of opinion, but can opinions of the same girl be THAT drastically different? I can only figure that some of you must be so overjoyed to be with a woman that you lose all sense of reason once they lay their hands on you.
My point is that if I'm going to PAY FOR THIS then the girl had better be AMAZING and WAY out of my league, or why bother? Right?
Let the stone throwing begin!
-- Modified on 6/17/2002 9:34:19 AM
Well said Fakename; I strongly concur. How can one not feel ripped-off shelling out $$$ for a piece of ass?
-Nolie
Never burned anymore.
Since TER enables me to do the research, I never feel burned anymore. I'm happy to say that my major disappointments lie in bad chemistry and from what some of us have been through in the past I can not complain. And yes, Thank God for TER!
Only once, and I decided never again.
1) I don't do outcall, so I never have to worry about the no-show
2) If she opens the door and she's not the girl in the pic or the pics are inaccurate, I walk away. I don't feel burned, because she just wasted an appointment and didn't get my money. She burned herself and I just have one less out of the hundreds available to meat.
3) I spend a few minutes on the phone with a provider when making the appointment. I try to get a sense of her before the meeting. If there's even a hint that we're aren't going to hit it off, I don't make the appointment.
4) Most importantly, I do my homework on TER. I don’t accept the first review of girl by a first time reviewer. I look at track record, not just the most recent take by a gentlemen. I use a grain of salt to divide between the lines of a review. I know that excellent service makes a girl more attractive and a totally hot babe gets better service reviews without earning them. Most reviews are written closely to a gentleman’s orgasm, so a point or two can be shaved simply for that fact. I make personal contact with the gentlemen who's reviews I'm relying on and get a first hand feel for whether I'm the kind of guy she's going to like, and whether I'll like her. At this stage the gentleman is more sober and lucid.
5) I suspend my expectations, and I live in the fantasy. Even though I've done all the research and I pretty much know what to expect, I approach the appointment as if I knew nothing. If a review has said that she kisses with tongue, I don't expect that she'll be kissing me in that way. I let her take the lead at first and draw her own lines. I know that a sure way to make certain she doesn't kiss me is to try and stick my tongue down her throat. Expectations can rule themselves out. I never think about the money and try to measure the experience by that value (this is what I mean by living in the fantasy). Like a person on vacation who spends the whole trip thinking about how expensive everything is, they will never be able to enjoy it. But spend the money and simply let the experience take you, and you'll have a great time. The money is gone, no sense in pining for it.
incall doesn't remove the chance of noshows, just reduces it. Ladies can either run late or not be home when you show up.
Because I haven't spent any time or money or effort on arranging the location.
I was just burned by a provider who had 7,8,9's for every review! I could tell by the look on her face in the parking lot that I was not her type. She laid there, looking at herself in the mirror or watching TV. Seems like the times in the past I've been burned has been with the younger ladies. The older ladies seem to want to please and enjoy being treated well. My two cents. tallred