Ladies do you have a "Wish List" of suitors that you would like to see? I am just wondering if the "WhiteList" is used in another way between providers to point somebody into the right direction! Any input would be appreciated !!

They wished they hadn't seen, lmao.

to your question is really another question:

Not completely out of the blue Coeur, but I have been introduced to UTR friends of providers a few times. It's also nice when a "retired" provider calls out of the blue regardless of why she needs the income, or a semi-regular calls me just about when I'm getting that itch to call her.

It's happened to me a few times. Twice in the past month.  

but i've written it off to cold call salesmanship, i've never taken an unknown lady up on an offer for a date that i didn't initiate.

It's happened to me twice. Each time by a popular well reviewed provider. Both experiences were great and one I have seen several times. However, both contacts were a PM based on a post I made. Same thing?

Providers have set me up with their friends more than once.  They've always been UTR and didn't expect donations.  It should be said that I had great rapport with these providers before they referred me to their friends.

it's supposed to be.  Men would rather be the hunters than the hunted.  The closest I have come is to have Kgirls introduce me to their roommates and suggest that I would like them too.  Had a few resulting doubles from that type of introduction, but never had a girl, agency or indie, that I didn't know initiate contact.  You all must be way better looking than me.    

off of posts you have made, then I probably have no chance.  I will listen to the crickets instead.  Lol

I'm not sure how a white list would point another lady in the right direction; generally, they mean you were safe and didn't cause problems, and they don't necessarily mean you were a spectacular lover and conversationalist (although that's why many of us contact references; sometimes we get a little more nuance).

i used to date myself but then i got married.  

and a great conversationalist!  and my current atf told me i went from 75% to 100% on the love making scale since i first started seeing her!  and we all know how much we can trust what providers tell their clients!

The lady may think she has done you a favor and may expect a higher than normal frequency. I had to tell one lady...."you know this shit is expensive? "

you gained a few pounds on the lovemaking scale?

that much cajoling, but I get your point.  If we get a little wood looking at your website, we are pretty much primed for you to close the deal.

then don't ask for Greek every time.  It will save you some money.

yourself???    Table for one, please.  Lol

or maybe your envelope makes you dreamy, but I'd wager that with some of your ATFs, there is something genuinely there.  As a newer person to this, I wondered whom I would meet in my encounters, and so far I've been quite pleasantly surprised.  Some are dreamy (although probably not my first word choice), great conversationalists, and/or lovers, but you've expressed you're a pragmatist, and a little skepticism is never a bad thing.  

I like to think I screen for at least some literacy (as in, if reading my web site is boring, then please look elsewhere, with full realization that in these ventures, text is not the main pursuit), but screening for illiteracy can be a tactic, too!  Seriously, though, the most egregious posts are typically made with an alias, so looking at them is of limited benefit, although every so often someone expresses something shockingly nasty or misogynistic under their real handle.  I like to see people who love women, not hate us!

shocking, it is meant to be humorous.  Just my style.

this whole set up is a fantasy, so i really don't take someone's word for anything.  it's the actions that count, and the action of seeing me several times over the yers tells me i am worth their effort, and that's not a lie.