Must be a common dilema. Providers who want references also give them. Providers who don't ask for references don't give them. Any advice on how to break into the "inner circle" and get that first reference?

You just need to do a little research, and sometimes the reviewers tell you about the verification process the lady uses.

You may need to provide some work related information, so the lady can verify that you work for a regular company and not LE....

Good luck,

RocketMan36