Past that, my point was it was very surprising to me that someone with as much experience as you have would take a chance like that. I am sure you do fine in Chicago...I wasn't putting you down, and I wasn't offended. I know you weren't asking us to feel sorry for you, and I'm sorry if that sounded bad. I just am honestly amazed when people don't solely stick with well reviewed TER gals in new cities. I mean, I can understand a guy TOFTTing if he lives here and has seen everyone he is interested in and wants to try something new (although I wouldn't do it)...but never in an unfamiliar city.
Anyway, sorry for your bad luck on issue #1 and that it led to issue #2. I will personally vouch for at least three reliable ladies I know here anytime you want.
first night here in SD and in 15 years of doing in this i got double tapped, bait and switch and up sold did not go for the upsell so i got a 5 min dance and she left what a rip off waist of $$.5
here is her url please stay away from this rip off artist
Dude, if you have 13 reviews and have been doing this for 15 years, HOW could you TOFTT on a trip someplace? This girl has no reviews (that I can find). Why would you bother with someone who has no reviews, no matter how hot (especially as SD is KNOWN to be a town full of rip off ads and agencies), when you have great gals on here with great reviews...several who replied to or were mentioned to you on your post on here a few days ago, and quite a few more if you just did your TER search homework.
While I don't condone what you say this woman did, hard to feel for you, my man.
#1 i had 1 cancelation(no baby sitter) and one that i could not get a hold of becaus she was having phone problems and saw no need to soil there reputation
#2 after drinking the little head took over so I MADE A BAD CHOICE.
#3 Im on the other board and have an great reputation with all the ladies in chicago
#4 i was not asking for anything just wanted to let you all know
sorry if i offended you with my refrance for toftt since I have so few reviews here on ter but rest assured if you come to chicago i will be happy to offer help or service to any and all
Past that, my point was it was very surprising to me that someone with as much experience as you have would take a chance like that. I am sure you do fine in Chicago...I wasn't putting you down, and I wasn't offended. I know you weren't asking us to feel sorry for you, and I'm sorry if that sounded bad. I just am honestly amazed when people don't solely stick with well reviewed TER gals in new cities. I mean, I can understand a guy TOFTTing if he lives here and has seen everyone he is interested in and wants to try something new (although I wouldn't do it)...but never in an unfamiliar city.
Anyway, sorry for your bad luck on issue #1 and that it led to issue #2. I will personally vouch for at least three reliable ladies I know here anytime you want.
There are plenty of guys out there that have funds to TOFTT on an unknown commodity (a girl that only has an ad out, no reviews, no history on the discussion board, no website, etc). I am not one of them, but I know that some guys can do this and some guys even get off on doing this.
If a guy is visiting someplace like San Diego, which has quite a few well-reviewed providers, I would never think that he should see an unknown commodity. Yes, things come up, like what Donblass1 described, but I have a hard time believing all the well reviewed ladies were taken that night.
IMO, if a lady is for real and wants to get business and has no history or reviews, she can easily get a VIP membership, start talking with some guys on the boards, have a reliable website set up, and get some reviews.
New girls on CL or that just have an ad up...they will get work, but I would wager pretty strongly that a majority of those ads are not for women that are going to go on to be well-reviewed TER providers in the first place.
In less than five minutes, here is what you could have found:
1) A search on the phone number HERE reveals four profiles with three different names from 2002-2005, with many of the reviews being ripoffs (and the others probably fakes).
2) Recognizing the 469 exchange as a La Mesa landline, I confirm that by going to
That search confirms it is a landline (with the name of the customer unlisted) and yields three escort ads using different names.
There are enough red flags to have a multi-bull fight. How did you guys miss them?
(Note for readers: WaterBoys must be moderated, because his post with an earlier time was not up when I submitted mine, which went public immediately.)
So sad to hear that you were not given the treatment you deserve!! Next time you should stick with the girls who have fabulous reviews. Then you know you're getting what you want. If you come back this way for a visit - come check me out......
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