What is it with so many providers failing to reply to requests for appointments?
Are they afraid you may be LE?
Are they THAT busy?
Are they snobs?
Are they Prima Donnas?
Is it beneath them to respond?
Is it because they just can't say NO?
Failure to preform is one thing, but failure to provide a reply is a courtesy they need to learn!
If they don't like the references, just say so!
Give whatever answer suits them, but for God's sake, give a reply!!!

She replies to me!  lol

So do 98 percent of the agencies, but it is only about 20 percent of the independents
from City Vibes, Back Page, TER PM's.  If you have a steady relationship, I do not doubt
that you get prompt replies.

I have been fortunate enough to not have any "no replies" thus far. Perhaps it's because I only deal with TER and one other site.

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I don't worry about, and I certainly don't take it personally. I  just move on. However, I may circle back later in time and try again.  

A gal, who I personally met at an M&G, failed to return my calls. Then a low volume provider in Vegas did not get back to me, but it's Vegas so connect the dots That's it.

I don't have a nervous breakdown over it, but I still think it is a little rude.
When 80 or 90 percent do not reply, that is a bit much in my book.
It takes quite a bit of wasted time and delays making a date by a number of days.

No doubt, that's f'ed up. I have no idea what happens on female back channel. Probably just a convo error. Press forward, I am sure there are plenty of ladies that want to see you.

I am learning that women all have outside lives, so if they do not want to go on a date, they simply don't respond.  I try to tell everyone to give me a yes or no, so I can find the guy another date.

Jenny my dear, the agencies respond 98 percent of the time.  It's the independent
girls who are the problem.  My complaint is that I get all excited at the prospect
of meating a sexy babe and then I can't even get a reply.  High school was better than that.

I just joined TER and only a basic member, I posted the other day for the first time, I tried to respond to messages sent via TER, however, basic members cannot.  I do however respond via my site link, or email.. until I learn how to use TER and become a full member ... check my ad gentlemen would love to  meet you xoxo  Bridget

What's worse than a no reply is a no show!  Happens all the time in Vegas.  I just don't understand these girls... and poor guys....

I don't know but it has caused me to go UTR and only see people I have seen before. It has almost been a year since I have seen a lady i have not seen before. not that I have not tried.. These type of people give the hobby a bad name.

Maybe it's your approach. Initial contact defines a person more than one might think. I delete one-liners (rude), send them to my P411 profile if they are vague or start a friendship if they tell me who they are and what they are interested in.