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...a BGB (boy-girl-boy) session? Interestingly, the request comes up a lot when I am on the east coast, but never over here. Wondering what that's all about…. Is east coast less inhibited? Is west coast more conservative? There are many more marked differences I've noticed, but this one creates the most stark contrast between the two coasts.

I have not done that way but have had a Italy and myself see two guys then switch

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Im surpised as well that the east coast guys want to share more than we do.  I cant imagine they are less inhibitive?  I asked one higher end lady about it and she said she would only do bgb with the second male being one of her male escort friends. Nope, I wanted it to be me and another hobbiest who are "really" into it and the lady.  Now while I say this there may be the expectation I'm talking about bbg.  No, no gay sex, but of course greek would have to be a consideration.  Now that opens a can worms, doesn't it?  LoL

Well! You have brought up a good point! Perhaps it is the ladies on the east coast who are more open and thus have allowed the trend to develop!  

 

 

Posted By: lickthestick
Im surpised as well that the east coast guys want to share more than we do.  I cant imagine they are less inhibitive?  I asked one higher end lady about it and she said she would only do bgb with the second male being one of her male escort friends. Nope, I wanted it to be me and another hobbiest who are "really" into it and the lady.  Now while I say this there may be the expectation I'm talking about bbg.  No, no gay sex, but of course greek would have to be a consideration.  Now that opens a can worms, doesn't it?  LoL

I think you have more posts in the past week than in the past 2 years.  

Posted By: CarlyDahl
Well! You have brought up a good point! Perhaps it is the ladies on the east coast who are more open and thus have allowed the trend to develop!  
   
   
   
   
   
Posted By: lickthestick
Im surpised as well that the east coast guys want to share more than we do.  I cant imagine they are less inhibitive?  I asked one higher end lady about it and she said she would only do bgb with the second male being one of her male escort friends. Nope, I wanted it to be me and another hobbiest who are "really" into it and the lady.  Now while I say this there may be the expectation I'm talking about bbg.  No, no gay sex, but of course greek would have to be a consideration.  Now that opens a can worms, doesn't it?  LoL

Well she has an active ad for the next few days - makes sense to maximize exposure here to post more than just in the ad area. Just what it looks like from my seat.

Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
I think you have more posts in the past week than in the past 2 years.  
   
Posted By: CarlyDahl
Well! You have brought up a good point! Perhaps it is the ladies on the east coast who are more open and thus have allowed the trend to develop!    
     
     
     
     
     
Posted By: lickthestick
Im surpised as well that the east coast guys want to share more than we do.  I cant imagine they are less inhibitive?  I asked one higher end lady about it and she said she would only do bgb with the second male being one of her male escort friends. Nope, I wanted it to be me and another hobbiest who are "really" into it and the lady.  Now while I say this there may be the expectation I'm talking about bbg.  No, no gay sex, but of course greek would have to be a consideration.  Now that opens a can worms, doesn't it?  LoL

Sympathy:
Astute observation!
Goldie:
From the looks of the pictures on your site, it's a lucky seat ;)

Truth:
BGB or MFM is fun for me. I'm just trying to spice things up. I troll the boards from time to time and it's hard not to notice the high percentage of snarky comments flying around. Seemed prudent to remain an observer, rather than a participant. I'm just trying to have some fun, both on here and behind closed doors. Shouldn't we all?

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Just observing that a previous non particpant was now jumping in the pool.

Posted By: CarlyDahl
Sympathy:  
 Astute observation!  
 Goldie:  
 From the looks of the pictures on your site, it's a lucky seat ;)  
   
 Truth:  
 BGB or MFM is fun for me. I'm just trying to spice things up. I troll the boards from time to time and it's hard not to notice the high percentage of snarky comments flying around. Seemed prudent to remain an observer, rather than a participant. I'm just trying to have some fun, both on here and behind closed doors. Shouldn't we all?  

-- Modified on 1/15/2014 1:14:20 PM

and i consider myself the lucky one!

This subject comes up on the boards once in awhile. Seems like many hobbyists prefer to be the only dick in the room
 

Posted By: CarlyDahl
...a BGB (boy-girl-boy) session? Interestingly, the request comes up a lot when I am on the east coast, but never over here. Wondering what that's all about…. Is east coast less inhibited? Is west coast more conservative? There are many more marked differences I've noticed, but this one creates the most stark contrast between the two coasts.

Different stroke for different folks. This is something for you to answer no matter what part of the cou try you are in.

BGB sessions. My first experiences were way before this lifestyle. It was really just a question to open up a fun discussion. And I am curious why I get so many requests there and not here.  

But I very much appreciate your suggestion that I make the decision for myself. I have yet to be disappointed with my choices so far ;)  

Posted By: OtisSpunkmeyer
Different stroke for different folks. This is something for you to answer no matter what part of the cou try you are in.

Posted By: CarlyDahl
...a BGB (boy-girl-boy) session? Interestingly, the request comes up a lot when I am on the east coast, but never over here. Wondering what that's all about…. Is east coast less inhibited? Is west coast more conservative? There are many more marked differences I've noticed, but this one creates the most stark contrast between the two coasts.

Just to add a little spin to this post, what about having a Transgender girl join a B/G session? Or another spin, what about a gal who has both male & female genitalia?? I forget the name of that but I think it starts with a Hem........ and I forget the rest. Any thoughts.....

It may not be of interest to most but there are always a certain percentage of people who are into almost anything. I know of one provider that has done it and another on a different board does GB's with up to 7 guys. Definetly not my thing though.

would love to see Goldie or Carly travel to SF (know Carly has).

and just a bit up tight. On the general board if you even jokingly bring up anything having to do with another guy being involved they go all "Homophobic" on you LOL. For me life is to short and is about having new experiences within reason and the experience of either BGB or especially BGTS would be a new one for me.

Nothing is taboo & it is not a coastal thing either.  I post in LA & lots are interested in this special request.  Refer to my website for photos of my male companion Marshal!

How does that work if FS is no longer on the menu?

Posted By: Madame Patricia
Nothing is taboo & it is not a coastal thing either.  I post in LA & lots are interested in this special request.  Refer to my website for photos of my male companion Marshal!

You bring up a very good point. As one who is well versed on the E, Coast culture and way of life and now having been around the W. Coast way of life (both in and out of the hobby).  As well as parts of the S. West.

I can honestly say, that the E. Coast and S. West men are WAY less inhibited and more open to FOLLOWING through on exploring/enjoying this MFM/MMF type of pleasure. More so than the W. Coast men.

I wouldn't say the W. Coast men are more conservative. The W. Coast men simply lack respect & decency of  the *following through* perspective.  And it leaves the other parties screened/committed to *looking forward to said MMF/MFM* in a state of displeasure and their time wasted.  
And such I simply won't partake of any more MMF/MFM on the W.. Coast. (sad but true!)

But go to the E. Coast/S. West..... the men there, follow through on exploring and enjoying the mmf/mfm and it's fucking fantastic!!

 
 

Posted By: CarlyDahl
...a BGB (boy-girl-boy) session? Interestingly, the request comes up a lot when I am on the east coast, but never over here. Wondering what that's all about…. Is east coast less inhibited? Is west coast more conservative? There are many more marked differences I've noticed, but this one creates the most stark contrast between the two coasts.

Not everyone is interested in sex.  There are so many more options out there to have fun, and my male companion Marshal is very open-minded as well.

1. Carly - curious as to what you say to those requests?!?  Have you gone for it?!?  (I think most would assume you would, but I don't know if that is true. :)

2. My guess is you get more everything in NYC - there is just so many more people.

3. MFM can be a different animal because there is such a strong bi and bi-curious segment.  Talking with some hobbyists and providers previously, it was my understanding that most male providers either lean gay or bi -- they have to, as guys (and not women) are the ones that pay for sex!  Even the ones that that advertise as a straight couple.  

4. A threesome of two straight males and a female provider I think is very uncommon.  I think it is tough enough for providers to make a smooth and effortless session with one guy (lol) -- let alone two and all the related insecurities.  I think there is also an added safety element as well.  That is why most threesomes are with another provider they already know and feel they have a good connection with.

Hello sweetie! I will send you a PM on this one, ok?

I will say this though… I am not really talking about a MFM session for Bi-Curious men. I am talking about an all out, around the world trip, of one woman completely satiating two men. Or maybe they are satiating her? ;)

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One of my fantasies hehe :)

I can't imagine any guy (at least any straight one) wanting to participate in such a session unless he is getting paid, or at least doing it for free. The only such experience I had along that lines was at a sex club in SF where I did some guy's wife while he gave her a facial, but I wouldn't exactly go around looking to participate with another dude. Now one guy and 2 or more girls, THAT's a different deal altogether...

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