Just outta curiosity, thought I'd see what fun I could start.  Why do you hobby?  If you are single, your reasons will probably be different than a married hobbiest, or one who has a "significant other".  I'll start.  Oh yea, for the record, I decided to use a new Alias for this post.  No sense in busting myself now, is there?

There are some things that either my wife won't do - such as BBBJTC, or that I just don't feel right about asking her to do - such as anal.  Everything else is fine at home, but these things don't ever get done there.  So I find a hobbyist who will do one or both of these, and get those desires fulfilled every month or so.

So, who's next?  This outta be fun.

You must be hanging around with those TS hobbiests huh? Or maybe there's something I missed about our little community. Personally, I would seek out a female provider if I wanted to partake in any of those activities. To each his own.



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For so many of us, being a Provider is the absolute best of all worlds. It satisfies so many things that I couldn't list in one posting, but have said these things before (do a post search).
For one, while many of us love the company of men, the attention of men, and certainly the close intimacy with men, we are not necessarily interested in dating (in the 'normal' way), having a boyfriend, or looking for a husband! And 'normal' dating has an objective, doesn't it? Which is to what? Find a compatible person to have as a monogamous (perhaps) SO, or a future mate - both of which most of us are NOT interested in!
The Provider/Client relationship is perfect because there's an understanding of what they both want and need. A pleasant evening - the company of a charming, intelligent person, attentiveness, attraction, a nice dinner, fine wine, and great sex. And then, we go HOME! No strings, no false expectations, no whining about 'why haven't you called me?', no BS.

Is it any wonder that this is becoming more and more the 'norm'? The Millenium way of Dating?

That's why!

Sedona

I go to a provider to receive BBBJTC and to have anal with her!  Jeez, dude, what were you thinking?

"So I find a hobbyist who will do one or both of these, and get those desires fulfilled every month or so."

Don't take my post so seriously. I know what you meant. Just having a little fun with something that could have been phrased a bit differently.

I completely agree with the long thread...but naughty is right. Or neverbeen just messed up with his post.....(toooo funny)

Because over the last 8 years, or so, my wife has gone from 120 lbs to 220 lbs, and is about as sexy as a bag full of dirty laundry.  I still maintain a weight within 10 pounds of when we first started dating, 22 years ago.

Click on the link -

There is someone out there for everyone!

I'm not too different from Charlie Sheen, I enjoy the company of women, I enjoy having ming boggling sex with women, and I enjoy having women go home and not call me nagging about this or that and making long term plans I am not that much into.
I think some of the most honest women I have ever met have been providers, and some of the most dishonest as well... but then
I have been doing this over the span of 4 decades and surely have met one or two bad apples.
--Marty

EOM

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Exactly. We don't want a relationship. Just companionship, fun, good sex and maybe do it again sometime, but no strings!

Cergio

I can see how that was confusing.  Sorry.