San Diego

OK. Let's see a show of hands...How many of you guys are married? Something tells me...
foreveryaction 1 Reviews 2056 reads
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...this young lady isn't going to be very sympathetic to your cause. She wrote:

"I am a provider who is just wondering why you guys cheat on and deceive your spouses instead of just divorcing them because they don't make you happy? Is it for the kids guys? Cause do you think it's right to perpetuate the same cycle to even bring your children up in such a fraudulent make believe world? So your son can grow up and get the type of wife he saw you have only to spend his life craving whores? Why not teach our children and awaken society in general to the importance of sexuality so we can stop all the lies and pretending! Teach your sons that the wholesome girls waiting for their wedding nights are America's biggest scam! Teach your daughters that sucking cock is O.K. and encourage them to learn! Stop the madness! This is real life out here so I wonder why we try so hard to pretend it isn't exactly what it is. I used to wish I was someone's wife until I got into this line of work. Now I find myself amused by the whole situation! Quite a big fat joke if you ask me! If you want my advice, if you are even browsing in this forum to be reading this and you are married....get a divorce!!... Or tell your wife what your up to, she may be interested herself or she may be inclined to improve her own prowess knowing your being driven to other ladies. Don't stay for the kids, the kids will be fine as long as you are a good father and wouldn't you be a better person if you were happy w/your life and not just going through the motions? Your wife will probably thank u one day too so she can find someone she is sexually attracted to because if you're not fucking often, it's definetly not you. IF she's just not a sexual person, well you need to free yourself of that curse and tell her to go get counseling before she tortures the next dumb sucker who will have to sleep next to her w/blue balls every night and not even get his cock sucked for his birthday!!!! You guys raelky need to get in touch w/reality. And some of you think that partaking in this hobby is what makes you a trick.....NO NO NO NO....you being a trick starts at home...once your a trick there you've got to be a trick! In a man's home he should be a king! His woman should be his queen and they should be one! Who should be best at pleaseing a man but his own woman he takes care of and claims as his own...How could you love a man and not suck him dry!!! I don't get it, these women are nuts but that's fine because if they weren't so insufficient I wouldn't have so much fun making all this easy money doing what real girls are suppose to do serving cocks....it's in my nature....So everyone find a good whore and marry that bitch and you'll be the happiest mother-fucker in the world!!!"

I was quite taken aback when I read this. She's a fairly well known younger lady here in San Diego and well reviewed. While her mood seems to lighten a little by the end, I can't help but imagine that a gentleman that checks the box "Married" just might not be welcomed with open arms......

keg19691510 reads

I am very, very, single. I've never been married, and haven't even had a steady girlfriend in quite a few years. I think marriage is a great institution, but it isn't for everyone, and I don't think it's for me. Maybe someone will change my mind for me about that someday, but for now, I like this. I can do this pretty much guilt free, and enjoy it for what it is: meeting and spending time with a beautiful woman, with no strings attached. Just my 0.02 cents.

I'm very single, very happy with both my dating and hobbying activities, and very interested in finding out who the aforementioned provider is!

maxxx691194 reads

This is way too complex to elaborate on this forum. Marriage? It is not what we were being tought over the generations. The rules of engagement had changed after French Revolution, in part to do with evolving capitalism and economic position of men and women. Now it's about so many things, not just, love, sex and all that jazz. Companionship, legal/contractual union, social image, procreation and parenting, too many facets to encompas with a few brief thoughts. An interesting article for those of you having patience to read it is essentially a criticism of evolutionary psychology position on the subject, and is a good starting point to think about this issue (especially if you're a woman). Of course, there's always more than one way to look at it...

I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to leave!

been_there_692356 reads

In the 70's a book called "Everything you wanted to Know about sex but were afraid to ask"  Stated that the reason men go to "Providers" is for cunnilingus and fellatio.  If you're married and want that...then go for it!!!

you can tell she's younger.  In life, shit happens.  Things are a balance.  Things are complicated.  And truthfully I've never seen a young provider who seemed really into sex.  The more mature gals are probably as thankful for the encounter as we are.  I love that!  Young and idealistic.  She'd make a good wife though, as she talks a streak without leaving a breathing space for a guy to respond.

Please do tell, who is this lady?  I'll avoid her like the plague...

It was me guys!!!! I wrote that post and I can't believe that I am rereading my own words here!!! I just happened to be browsing here which I do not do often.....!!! Well I do not apologize for my words although I would like to apologize if I offended anyone. Surely that was not my intention!...I wrote this post out of frustration and actually received a lot of VERY positive feedback from many individuals who appreciated my bluntness. I am sick and tired of meeting men who are miserably married. I LOVE EVERYONE!!!! Including miserably married men but I do not agree at all w/people being unhappy because we only live once!!! If you are happily married I am sooooooooo happy for you!!! If you are married and not happy my opinion is that you should get a divorce!!!!! Your right, I am younger.  I am 23 years old and I see the world through the eyes of a 23 year provider. I never had opinions like this before being a provider....(I didn't know any better) Today marriage is far from my mind! I no longer see it as a prerequisite to being happy!!!! I see things very differently and I have no hard feelings about it!!! I have friends who are divorced and happier then they thought they'd ever be!!1 I'm not a divorce advocate just a realist. I used to post all kinds of little "food for thought posts" on cl just for fun until I realized the hard way that people on cl are too defensive for me!! Come on foreveryaction...I think you have even cum to see my before/have reviewed me!!! You know me and I obviously don't give a crap if you are married or not unless we become friends and the issue is even approached! If I become close w/someone to the point that they need me to lend a caring ear believe me I am not judging when I express my opinion! All I wish is that the world could be more of an open and honest place to live and if we would deal in reality and not make believe it really could be!!! We need to stop pretnding about marriage!!! That is obvious simply by the divorce rate!!! It's not always all it's cracked up to be nor is it a good reason to throw your life and happiness down the darn drain!!!! Those of my freinds who have known me for a long time I suppose you think should not want to see me anymore if they are married after reading my opinion? NOT!!! My friends love me and my personality as I do their's!! The moral of my story is....WE only live once....lets do so as happily as possible! No hard feelings married guys!!!!! Don't take my silly words too personally!!! It's JUST my silly, blunt, Sagitarian opinion and I don't mind anyone knowing that I wrote this...xoxoxoDream...

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