I recently joined TER, and I'm a newb to this whole thing.  It was one of those things on my bucket list, and not interested in dating right now, so the timing was perfect.  However, in trying to book with an escort, I seemed to mess up along the way.  Unsure what I did specifically, but hours before I was to meet the escort, she said I was "weird" and cancelled our appointment.  Now, I haven't heard back from 3 others, and just tonight a fourth said I was "not safe".  WTH?  

Upper right corner below the life preserver. There are a number of subjects covered which are helpful to newbies. Also have you checked out the FAQ for Newbies board? Many new clients find it difficult to get that first date so you're not alone.  
Finally take a look at a site P411, many providers use it for screening. They also advertise "newbie friendly".  Hang in there eventually it'll happen

It's hard to help you when we don't know what you wrote.  We're these conversations in writing?  If so, are you able to post it here, changing the names of course?

Why are you hobbling?  Did she also break your leg?  Lol

because you aren't asking for the appointment the right way.  Newbies get impatient and start sending a lot of follow-up emails, which the providers don't like.  Or else they try to engage in extensive email conversations before the session and you are branded as a time-waster.  However, the biggest reason is if you mention money or any sex acts prior to the session.  It makes you look like LE.  

HA!  Nice catch.  Webster really needs to add hobbling as an official word.  

This is a huge reason I rarely hobby in the US anymore.  

No need.   I sometimes make them up as I need them.   Lol

Its a subtle way to let the providers know you have big hands, and . . . .

You'er rgiht!  

Thanks for the response.  And I took you up on your offer and PM'ed you.  Much appreciated.

Thank you.  I'll check it out.

OK, thanks.  I was thinking of doing that, but wondering if it would matter if I have already been blackballed somewhere.  Worth checking out.

Thanks for the reply.  Where would I do that?  Is there a particular site?

When you contact a provider keep it simple.  How you communicate with her is the only thing she has to go on until she meets you.  Also, what type of number are you using to contact.  If you are using one of those low cost or free numbers, it is possible you were reassigned a number that was at one time used by LE or someone else that got blacklisted.  I don't know what the odds are of that happening, but it is certainly possible.

If you have a minute, visit my website and read the etiquette and screening pages there. I wrote those with the new B in mind.