First, Hello, to my Sd luv'd ones!
I think the previous thread proved my point. Being careful and paranoid are two differnt things. All those who commented I was quetionable need to take their own advice and check TER.
Little hypocritical don't you think.....?
My post wasn't to cause trouble, or hurt Sparker. I can't give you a lesson in how to be safe here. I can tell you that posting a little bit like Rugburn, is helpful and not negative. If you don't know her or think it's fishy don't post.
As much as I know you guys don't want to get ripped off or take chances. I just ask you see both sides for two seconds.
This is supposed to be fun! If you always assume some is up to something.Well, lets' just say it takes the wind from the sails and defeats the purpose for all. Not to mention, this is a discussion board, which typically voices different points of view. Thanks for respecting mine. I've seen guys walk out of get togethers from being to nervous and paranoid. That's not kewl. I also advocate seeing that same perosn or few. But again, that's just my point of view. I think my reviews will show I have a litle knowledge. And didn't mean to offend anyone. If you want a personal conversation you can email me, or perhaps they'll let me do a chat and I can answer more detialed questions.

I noticed your reviews have you in LA and Orange County?

In San Diego a guy can look up a REVIEWED provider, go to see her and WHAMMO...receive a gift of those pretty double linked bracelets and a free ride with a night's lodging!!!  YES a TER reviewed provider.

In San Diego, LE participates daily on the board and probably weekly in sting operations with information gleaned from the board.  They don't like to spend money on a bunch of separate VIP memberships, so they pop up with newbie names fishing for information which they hope someone unaware will supply.

In San Diego, as in a few of the more flavorful cities with hopping posting boards (as opposed to those with merely advertisiments as to who is coming when) we've got a great group of posters with fun and enjoyable personalities that make up the cast of characters.

They are savvy about the ins and outs of the hobby in San Diego and are loathe to provide information that would harm others.

Spirited and sarcastic "whacks" here and there are justified.

~~If everybody gave the same namby pamby advice to the idiots that won't pay the TER membership fee or that can't figure out how to use the search icons, this would become a pretty dull place.

I'd MUCH RATHER have had a guy that felt a little nervous or paranoid walk out of a get together than stay.  That's the difference between you and I.

One thing we have in common is that I think Angelina Jolie is THE BOMB.

Stay Safe...  I'm thinking it could be RALLY TIME for NY.

Elise [email protected]

Elise,

Was that the future tense you used?  (So hard to tell in English... I read: "I would much rather have a guy who....")  

I thought you proclaimed retirement.  Are you back?  Or just teasing?

i don't think my sd friends post much. to busy i guess. i do know of a person that happen to.( met a female vice) you'll find i know sd well. just don't advertise.
also i am a overly nice person, sometimes gets me in trouble. but i would never give advice unless i was positive i knew what i was talking about. so were i know what your saying does happen. i don't think it's as bad as everyone thinks. there's a lot of good stuff going on in town... it's just not all over the boards. it funny, it seems more of the negative then positive hits the board down here. you may want a client to walk out because he's a nervous wreck. i'd rather not see him get that way in the first place. there's caution and then paranoia. i'd actually like to see sd take some of the measures LA folks do. but i don't think i'm allowed to share that here.
maybe on a chat....just trying to help.

although why do you guys want US to be monogamous and YOU want to go out and carouse and well, you know?

I don't mind having an OPEN relationship, but can't it go both ways?  Because I was looking at this guy down the street....  Nevermind the hot chick at.. well, NEVERMIND!!!

LOL

Elise

It sounds like all the hobbyists in San Diego should head down to TJ to avoid the heat.

Kidding Elise, I like you.