You know something I find very troubling is a person from TER that thinks it's ok to do more than just "pillow talk".

If you've been here awhile you probably know what I'm talking about.  People who try to become your fast friends while divulging things they know/have heard about other people.

A suggestion:  If TER people are the only people you know, and you feel that you must share things one TER person says/does to you with another person you want to be your "friend".  (I promise, I won't tell NEVER stands, btw)... You're spending TOO MUCH time on the boards and "courting" the girls that you find here.

Find some other hobby to use your time wisely with, because there are many of us that eschew talkers.  Trash talk, for instance, will get you the proverbial AXE from me.

Elise [email protected]