Why not have both??

I think it is important to have both! Chemistry is very important and can't go wrong with a lady who knows what she is doing and enjoys a mans company!

When I meet new people I usually ask them to tell me a little about them so I can get a feel for my new suitor

I know that how relaxed or reserved I feel with a person based on communications beforehand can effect how things go for sure!  

If I feel more reserved for some reason, I feel the person out a little more when I meet them to get a taste of their flavor (no pun intended lol)

Plus theres something delicious about the building up of anticipation and the butterflies you get when meeting someone new!  

MMMMMMMMMMM  

Good Question

Imo when you find what sparks chemistry and get everyone feeling like it is normal, fun and excited. Then you have a great experience in the sheets. The better the chemistry the better the performance. If both people cum it's definitely nice.