Hi all,

I've been trying to prebook something for this week, but there seems to be a common pattern - providers seem slower to respond to me after screening and references have been given.  

I am new to the scene but I had a good experience with the girls I've met - our initial correspondences have all been very pleasant. I would book something again with the girls I have seen, but even then they are hard to get ahold of and take forever to respond. As a provider, what makes you stop responding to someone new? It's a little disheartening when they don't reply/respond then you see them active here on TER or their websites...

I'm free this week any day after Monday (12/15). Please contact me or let me know if you are willing to see me.

Thanks for reading

Just going to throw in my 2c as a guy like many guys on TER, that has gone though the same thing.

I've been seeing girls for a few years now and I've ran into that so many times I can't count. However, Most of them end up with me going to their location and they stop responding, never getting a responses from texts, emails or phone calls wasting money/gas and time in the process. Now, It's not always that they decided to just not see you to screw with you. I've been in multiple situations where emergencies come-up, phones die (due to power, system error, service issue), or they double book because some guys do flake and waste their time too. There are legit reasons and why providers don't be upfront and tell you that something came up and they can't see you before you even get there.

For example, I'm seeing this one provider as a regular and her phone is total crap, her service drops randomly and sometimes she never even gets texts/phone calls. It's not her fault, shes a sweet girl and I've seen her a handful of times. I even tried to fix her phone cause I'm a computer guy but its just a very old smartphone. She's been trying to buy a new phone but she's got a $15,000 college tuition bill that's due this month and she can't afford a new phone at the moment so she deals with it.

I can say there's not a good reason all the time, I've called a provider once and she told me the upscale hotel she was staying at. I proceeded there and gave her a call to let her know I was there to get the room number, When I told her I was in the parking lot she hung up and stopped responding and shut off her phone. If people were able to post a review for every time someone stopped responding there would be so many more reviews it'll flood the site.

When it comes to providers from TER, Maybe they did not like your responses, or your comments. I also notice you don't have any reviews, that may also be a factor but I'm not entirely sure. Your past interaction or session with the provider may be a factor on why your having a hard time seeing them again. It can be anything really as their are so many factors and reasons good or bad. Ether way, good luck ... as your going to run into things like that occasionally.

I stop responding to someone new when they continue to waste my time.  Some may email way to much & never actually book an appointment because they never send the booking details required on my website.  Some are flakes who book, but never show up. Some waste time by not supplying references, or verifying who they are...

is this you?

You have no reviews.  Are you verified?  What services & donation should other providers assume your interested in by your vague post?

Either way, I maybe available this week if you can put your ducks in order shy guy.

Here is how I contact providers:

1) Look up provider on TER/P411/other sites, if she has a website of her own even better.
2) Check if she has her own screening process / contact form.
3) After filling out said contact form, text or email her my references if her screening didn't take care of it.
4) Wait for reply and figure out a date.
5) Confirm a few days before the actual date.

I value your time as much as I do mine, so I try to make it as easy as it can be for both parties to avoid hiccups. I have never flaked on anyone or go back and forth with the emails/texts.  

As for no reviews - both girls I've seen told me to book again after our session, but when I contacted them one didn't remember me and the other stopped responding after we set a date. I'm not one to write bad reviews because of that but I'm not inclined to write a good one either. My primary issue with reviews is that they need to be approved and I'm not sure I like that. There is a common theme when reading "The Juicy Details" and I'm put off in writing something like that. I realize girls like good reviews but there are a lot of guys who will write one - I would rather give a gift than write a review.  

I am not sure what you meant by asking if I'm verified. I don't have membership to any sites beside TER.

I do realize that my post is vague and I should have been more clear about the services I'm looking for. I just didn't want to put off any more providers before they contacted me/read my post, so I tried to make it as neutral as possible. I'll keep other ISO posts in mind next time.

I just want to say thanks to the posters and providers who dropped me a PM to point me in the right direction - you are all very welcoming. After the responses, I was able to book an appointment for this week!

You stay classy, San Diego. Happy Holidays!