Posted By: Arden_Moon
It has only happened a couple of times in the past where someone has used my name as a reference that I have never seen.
I noticed lately it is happening on regular basis. I don't understand it.
I can only assume that certain men assume some ladies don't really screen. (?)
A number of these times ladies have texted me for referral referring only to the person's board handle. (?) Typically a provider needs a bit more information then that. For me it's feels odd to get a quicky text from someone I don't know, about someone I don't know.
I'm not sure what this is all about. I do fear that some ladies are taking risks with their safety.
I'd love for others to share if they are having this issue. I'm afraid a girl will think you're saying you don't know the man, because you don't want to give a referral. That may not be the case. Please be safe. Take the time to get a proper reference. Perhaps at least provide a real name and area code to the lady your contacting.
I can tell you that I do screen, therefore, I know people by their real name. I do not know people by their board handle.
Some other helpful hints in regards to me personally. My friends will most likely send me a email that you are going to call or write. Anyone I have met will most likely NEVER be calling you for a last minute appt., ESP! at 1- 2am.
Any insite from the men on why someone would give false references would be helpful as well.
Thank you and stay safe!
Arden Moon
