Thanks for trying to be helpful, but I don't see current ads there. If you Google her, you'll find that her ads are at least six months old, or am I missing something? And I have two numbers for her that don't work any more. Last communication with her a few months back she told me that she would be retiring soon, and wanted to set up a final meeting. Would still like to do that, but maybe she decided to move on already. In any case, she was a wonderful provider, and a great person. Those who know her, like I did, found her to be very smart, and completely non-judgmental, and totally focused on her clients while really enjoying the ride herself. Now that's a very rare thing, wouldn't you agree?
Pick someone who wants your business instead of dwelling on someone who doesn't care.
I can't figure out why you guys are always posting about people who aren't replying.
Clearly they don't want to see you if you have contacted a few times with no reply, so why drag it into discussion?
The ad board is full of ladies who would love to see you.
I'm sure they will reply to an inquiry.
Out with the old. Carpe diem.
Life is too short to wait on providers who may or may not reply.
Goldie, you have a point. There's no future in obsessing or yearning for someone, if they've moved on or if they don't want to see you again. On the other hand sometimes the means we have at our disposal can be tenuous. Sometimes I've had a provider tell me "my phone got stolen" or "I had to change my number" or "I was taking a break" and so on. Things beyond our control can come up at short notice - sick family members that absorb our energies for a while, and so on. In short there's no harm in putting out discreet feelers just to check on someone's status from those who might know.
I've also read many a time about how good providers love to encourage customer loyalty, stressing that they are not simply "another notch in the belt" or advertising themselves as offering exceptional service, well above the rest. We've all seen that, and what's more as a client I've certainly experienced it. Moving on from an ATF is not always simply a question of picking the next card in the deck. Not all providers are endowed with the same physical attributes, positive attitudes, or skills. In fact I'd say those who specialize in and are good in particular area, say for example GF-FBSM - are very rare indeed in my experience. Again, no use chasing after something that's no longer available, but its always good to double check, and surely this board exists precisely to exchange information, get informed, stay safe, make a living, and ultimately have a good time.
2 emails/texts/pms or calls and with no response, look elsewhere. I have been reading quite a few posts lately about guys wanting to get with girls that do not respond to them.
It's just better to look for, and hopefully find those that click with you. I am so lucky to have found 3 providers that share mutual affection with/for me. If I can do it, anyone else can.
Be selective and find those that are attracted to you and want to spend time with you. It takes some time and research, but they are out there. And it's so fun when you find those that dig you!
Posted By: GoldieKnox
Pick someone who wants your business instead of dwelling on someone who doesn't care.
I can't figure out why you guys are always posting about people who aren't replying.
Clearly they don't want to see you if you have contacted a few times with no reply, so why drag it into discussion?
The ad board is full of ladies who would love to see you.
I'm sure they will reply to an inquiry.
Out with the old. Carpe diem.
Life is too short to wait on providers who may or may not reply.
+ 1 MisterJJJ. Well stated.
I loudly second that Goldie. "Pick someone who wants your business instead of dwelling on someone who doesn't care." Words for any hobbyist to live by.
I think if you would move on you would discover the majority of the good providers greatly enjoy their job!
Try someone new!
The last time I saw her ads she was no longer going by Daisy she used the term Priestess.
I did know her & met her personally several times. She was a doll. If she was retiring it makes it hard to when you have old friends posting threads inquiring where you are. I attempted to retire 3 years ago, but this lifestyle is way to much fun to quit!
"This lifestyle is way too much fun to quit!". Now those are words from a provider that are truly music to a hobbyists ears MP. lol
I agree. We have the right to become attached as long as we don't become too bothersome.
osssie,
I agree with all that you said in the starting post and follow ups. Daisy is special and very different from many of the providers here.
First of all when one is looking for BDSM providers, the pool of talent is already greatly reduced. Then to find someone who is real, fun, caring, (and YES a Domme can be those things!) pretty, creative, and great at what she does, well in san diego that leaves almost no one I have found.
I searched for her recently too and was/am worried about her safety. I do really care about her as a person - those who have not seen her won't understand. Was glad to hear you say that she was going to retire, as that leads me to believe that she is okay and simply choose to retire. Of course very sad that I won't be able to serve her any more. What an idiot to not see her more when I had a chance!
Please contact me if you find out anything. (right now only a basic member thou)
Goldie, don't know you, but find your posts accurate and honest. There just isn't really anyone locally that fits me, so it is hard to move on - not like w/vanilla providers. There are a few in L.A.
OK, M.P. shred me.
jack
Posted By: osssieboy
who used to work out of Vista until recently? She was one of my ATFs and I saw her a bunch of times. Awesome massage and play skills. Send me a pm if you like.
