San Diego

To those gentlemen who aren't new...
AHappyCamper 9 Reviews 580 reads
posted
1 / 21

Just because one never really knows whether it's a setup of some sort.  That many applies to ladies who have few to no reviews.  I still take those kinds of chances on occasion.  

But ladies who are highly regarded, such as yourself, don't give me reason to pause. I just prefer to let things develop at a comfortable pace. I'm comfortable in my own skin.

phi68psi 21 Reviews 506 reads
posted
2 / 21

Oh Arden, I should not get involved with you on this.  I am not objective. I still remember vividly the first time I met you.  I was on pins and needles.  But I need not have feared.  You were wonderful and said something complimentary I still cherish.  Really.  

Now I still retain a sense of anticipation.  Wonder whether I will have a worthwhile experience.  And whether the girl will be authentic in person or choreographed.  Dates can still evolve into something very gratifying at so many levels.  

And in your case, you have become more beautiful and more charming.

Kisses back.  :

JessicaSweden See my TER Reviews 489 reads
posted
3 / 21

That was soooo nicely said. Hope to see more comments like that!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 522 reads
posted
4 / 21

I was exclusively seeing indies and was nervous anytime I was seeing a new girl for the first time, mostly apprehension about walking into an LE sting.  As I grew to rely on agency girls more, I'm never nervous.  Its more excited anticipation about meeting somebody new and having hot sex with them.

bubblyone 50 Reviews 324 reads
posted
5 / 21

Still do, sometimes more than others, depends on the service rendered and the experience of the provider. If I were to see Arden, I am pretty sure I would be nervous, because of how sexy and beautiful I think she is.
Would need some Champagne for sure.

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 384 reads
posted
6 / 21

Unless I'm toftt, which is rare these days. If it's someone I haven't seen before,  I'm just concerned she'll live up to the reviews.  

Posted By: Arden_Moon
Do still get nervous before a date? What are your nerves about?  
 Should I drop a mint?  
 Will she be ready?  
 I hope she likes me?  
   
 Share with us ;)  
   
 Kisses,  
 Arden

SD_Guy_2865 26 Reviews 308 reads
posted
7 / 21

YES, I still get a little nervous. Even with my ATF.

I don't ever want to lose that. It keeps me humble & honest.  

 
Posted By: Arden_Moon
Do still get nervous before a date? What are your nerves about?  
 Should I drop a mint?  
 Will she be ready?  
 I hope she likes me?  
   
 Share with us ;)  
   
 Kisses,  
 Arden

fingerlicking00d 28 Reviews 330 reads
posted
8 / 21

On drive I always get the butterflies but eventually it always goes away if you know what I mean

bofia 26 Reviews 324 reads
posted
9 / 21

until a few years ago I really had butterflies knocking on that door. It was actually one provider who changed that based on her style/demeanor/attitude when we met. Somehow, the way she put me at ease has stuck with me.

I do enough research to know I'm not walking into a dangerous situation, but I'm still anxious about a discreet place to park, hotel security, etc...Still anxious about whether her looks will live up to my expectation (regardless of what reviews say).  

Every once in a while I'm disappointed or we just don't click for one reason or another, but nothing to do with nerves and nothing I carry over to my next new experience.

zgjsmhdgk 53 Reviews 365 reads
posted
10 / 21

I just go ready to have some fun, and proceed accordingly upon arrival.

nknow 60 Reviews 329 reads
posted
11 / 21

Nope... Too jaded now.

underdog98 11 Reviews 291 reads
posted
12 / 21

always concerned if it 's a first date that the pics and what was advertised are not representative of who I meet. It happens a bit and creates some awkwardness.

barebear3 38 Reviews 457 reads
posted
13 / 21

I have been in this hobby for many years. Yet I am always nervous before a first date.  

Will she look like her pictures?  

Will her face be attractive to me? (for providers who do not show their face)

Will she take one look at me and start to cough or sniff and say "You know, I am sorry, but I have a cough (a cold, a little touch of TB, getting over a case of the clap...) and I think that you should head home."

Will she just lie there and express her lack of interest by being stiff as a board and cold as an icecube?

Will she throw a huge number of rules at me that no one mentioned in her reviews? (no DATY, no BBBJ, no DFK...)

Will the room like a tornado swept through - her clothes, shoes, makeup scattered all over?

Will the room smell like two (or more) people have been having a non-stop orgy for the past 12 hours?

Will she go on and on about her boyfriend, her children, her other customers - as if I am a confessor or an agony aunt?

Will she enjoy my DATY technique? Or will she just lay there and not give any suggestions for improvement - despite my asking for what she enjoys?

In other words, I always worry that the date will be very disappointing, despite having read her reviews

Johnnysthewon 9 Reviews 349 reads
posted
14 / 21

Too old to be nervous. I rarely TOFTT at my age. Most ladies I previously met at socials or thru trusted referrals and can tell within two minutes or less if we click. Some blow me off while others hang. I have met some legendary ladies that are very good at providing entertainment. Some have kept in touch for years . Others could care less and so do I.  Many ladies could learn some communication skills, i.e. reply to text and learn to say thank you. Still no matter what the reviews say, it's always YMMV with hobby especially with full GFE. Enjoy your trip.

camote16 34 Reviews 282 reads
posted
15 / 21

After reading her reviews I'm hoping to get some if not most of what I've read. Mostly just the initial greeting. Hoping for a nice kiss but sometimes it's just a hug. It's like the end of your first date with a civvie wondering if you would kiss her. Only this is the beginning of the date

mklou 9 Reviews 317 reads
posted
16 / 21

Anytime it is with someone new, very nervous.

oralconniseur 10 Reviews 291 reads
posted
17 / 21

your 200th provider, there is always a slight tinge of nervousness or butterflies; but more of a excited anticipation to meet a new provider.  

It is like an actor going to do a live Broadway show for the umpteenth time. Always a slight feeling of butterflies, but once the curtains open it all goes away; and nature takes its course.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 340 reads
posted
18 / 21

...just being anxious. Sometimes I hope we'll like each other...that she's all I've been convinced she'd be from ads, website, pics. And that she finds me at least somewhat fun.

Sometimes I'm more certain than others.

Were it yourself, Arden, I think I'd feel comfortable that I'd like you, and it would only be an anxious feeling about meeting you.

And of course there's the thing of being discreet on the way to you or on receiving you at my hotel room. That's not what you're talking about though.

NaomiGrey See my TER Reviews 302 reads
posted
19 / 21
1angelinajones See my TER Reviews 296 reads
posted
20 / 21

and an axe-murderer, whom is referenced by many, then has a lapse in sanity,
and loses it on you!  lol  
This is funny @Naomi, but isn't it too real?  
I've had some scary experiences prior to joining TER....
but yes, I'm always having those "first butterflies".

AJ

mrroberts69 57 Reviews 319 reads
posted
21 / 21

Combination of nerves, anticipation, and expectation.....
what should I wear, casual or dressy.   More cologne or less.  Messed up hair or combed.  Fu#k, I sound like a girl...lol

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