I've got my eye on a provider with 11 reviews, all 10s and one 9. She looks fantastic, the reviews back up her performance but for some reason I'm a little apprehensive with securing a date with her. I tend to look at providers with at least 30 reviews to eliminate any uncertainty. Some of those who reviewed her are whitelisted with a long list of reviews, while the rest of her reviews are composed of newbies with only a handful of TER reviews. Anyone fall in the same situation and decided to bite the bullet only to be disappointed? I also understand, everyone has to start somewhere. Any advice would help, thanks!

If out of those 11 reviews a few white listed rated her high then it means what it means...
the only big risk you taking is not to click with her as much as the others did  

But if as far as services the reviews stipulate that's she means business then go for it!

A nice chat on the phone goes a long way as well!
If you click on the phone chances are your date will be successful

Go for it!
YOLO!

 

11, with excellent average scores such as you mentioned, is plenty for me with one caveat. I would like them to be from gents with multiple reviews.

Ok, if that's your number. For me one good review by a veteran hobbyist who's seen providers I've seen and scored similar is enough for me.  

However, everyone plays differently, if your comfort level is 30 reviews than stick with 30 reviews . you do realize for a low volume provider it could take awhile  to accumulate 30 reviews

If you check the newbie board the general consensus is 10 reviews.

You can catch a rising star before sh hits the ratings boards.

Thanks for the feedback gents and Frenchie! Much appreciated

...but that's just me, I would be satisfied by 1 review by a veteran reviewer.  11 is more than enough IMO.  If you want more assurance, then PM a couple of her recent reviewers and get any additional info they may be willing to share that they didn't put in their reviews.  BTW, without having written reviews yourself, some of us will be hesitant to respond.  Just something to think about.  

I would be concerned by the high scores you indicated... This would be true even for 30+ reviews.  Some gals are truly worthy of those high scores, but some know how to manipulate the system. Also, sometimes the high scores go to a lady's head and she develops GPS.  Not saying that is the case here, just something to think about.  The other thing I've seen is most guys (not all, but most) either follow the herd, or don't want to rock the boat and you get inflated scores.  

One last point, I don't usually make a decision based on the absolute score. What I am looking for is:

a) are the photos accurate? I already know I think she's hot based on the pics, so whether some other dude scored her an 8 or a 10 is moot. I just want assurance that the gal in the pictures is the one that I will meet when she opens the door.  

b) what kind of attitude does she exhibit during the session? this is more difficult to determine, but after reading reviews, you begin to be able to notice certain things that give you insight into this.  Again, the score is not always indicative. What is important to me is not necessarily important to the reviewer.  That is why BC is important.  

Just my two centavos..

Hi B - Whether 11 is enough or not enough ... only you can ultimately decide.  One other thing I would offer you is to search on the San Diego board threads for her.  You can generally tell a great deal about a provider based on their demeanor on the boards.  Are they always arguing with others?  Do they play nice?    Does controvery follow them around multiple sites?  Were they BANNED from other sites for doing so?  Do they (or their pimps) tell you to ignore PMs from certain people?  WHY?  What are they trying to hide?  
I have been able to cut thru the 9s and 10s and look at the person behind the numbers.  If you need more guidance I am always available via PM.  I also belong to a small (exclusive) but growing  group of hobbyists who will help you so that you dont just have to listen to me.  9s and 10s are easy to get here when hobbiests are offered a huge discount for a good review.  Let us help you navigate the waters.

joe

Thanks for the advice! Definitely appreciated all the feedback as I'm still new to the hobbying world and trying to cut through some of the BS is part of it. Have a few reviews pending release, so that should change in the next few days and help build my reputation here on TER. Everyone here seems to be really helpful with their advice and I will definitely reach out to those who offer extra assistance. Thanks everyone and enjoy your weekends!

I'm confused.  10's and 9's and 11 reviews?  Seems like a no brainer.  Especially if you do a little homework and check out who has reviewed them.  There are many reviewers that have been around a while and if you see that they've reviewed, positively no less, it seems she'd pass muster...  Not sure your apprehension....

At least you recognize that your absence of reviews is a big red flag.  

I would never have posted this without something to back it up with.

Sadly as in any open forum there are still people here hiding behind an alias with nothing but malicious intent behind every post. I would recommend being extremely careful about aligning with people who have blatantly posted they are a member in their own "like minded" group #AEJ. If you research this individual you will see multiple threats of violence and vicious attacks both verbal and physical against board members. The search function can be a very very eye opening thing here! The use and abuse of the alias will become much clearer after your research. If you feel a bit "wobbly" being a newbee and looking for more "Stability" I strongly urge you to stay clear of #AEJ or be prepared for a bumpy ride. The fact that he is speaking for his entire "group" to you should be evidence enough - code red. There are 4 other posters on this thread with over 250 reviews between them. I urge you to trust those guys not #AEJ.

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1. Pretty funny that you are hiding behind an alias - what does that say for your street cred?
2. Show me and the rest of the community at large a single instance of a threat on my behalf.  We hashed this over last year.  I told you that had I threatened anyone I would have been barred as a member - SHOW US!  Where is my threat?
3. Stop abusing whatever it is that makes you hallucinate.

Happy 2015!

Hope to meet you all at some of the M$G.  First drink on me RJ

Jo

1) I don't need any street cred. I surely dont need to create a imaginary friends like your "exclusive group" of guys that you are trying to use as influence over newbees. And yes I have to use an alias until you are permanently banned and blocked from TER as you have repeatedly proven your instability and proclivity towards violence, threats and hatred of women.

2) All the evidence is there one just needs to use the search function. So YES please anyone with questions regarding all of the issues surrounding #AEJ please search diligently. Unfortunately policy forbids me from quoting specific threats you have made but you all know it's true anyway so why waste time with the minutiae. There is a pending formal complaint #AEJ and I have been asked not to say anything more regarding the details as this is ongoing. I did learn however there is a much higher level of security that has been engaged in these efforts. This of course is great for me and the women as another level of security has been deployed.

3) I am extremely clear and lucid thank you.

Lets be serious. You've never been to a M&G and you will never go to one because you cant hide at a M&G. Sorry I don't drink from Juice Boxes anyway so I would have to decline.

Remember the scene in Black Hawk Down when the chopper starts spinning in slow motion until it finally crashes and hits the ground in a ball of flames. That's what I see when I think of you on TER #AEJ.

Bye Bye

 

 

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Internet bullies suck.  Threats to GK suck.  Here's a little song that sums up how I feelings for her.  It's called, "Marry your pussy." by R. Kelly.

 Yes, I am proposing!!  A TER first I know.. Please let me know if your pussy says yes

e careful that you don't miss out on an exceptional woman while you are waiting for perfection.