On another site a provider has posted her mother just died, in last two months was "pistol whipped" by a well known agitator, and lost her father in the last year also. One small problem, she is 50 and her deceased mom is/was 63!

Then she waits for an outpouring of pity and sympathy, to fill her date book.Is these a game, come-on or a really cruddy year?

                   FashionMaven

Well, first of all you might as well state who it is and where you get your information.Ifits posted on "another site" than its open to the public, right?
Otherwise, do you really expect an educated response to your "one sided" inquiry?
Wisdom tells me to leave room for mathmatical errors of age and look at the bigger picture. Your vision seems limited from your post. Care to expand it a little?

We could change it to a provider that always has car problems or LE problem. Would it be exceptable to have a "million" reasons for posting that? Will you respond as a patron and reach out, or decide she is "flaky" or unreliable?

 Maybe the above scenario used in the first post was my way of asking if "little lost kittens" make good business women. Or is flakey a less nebulus? I wouldn't begin to ask hobbyist to pay for my car, back bills or get the room because I can't afford it. No, not the usual pay for the room if it's part of a transaction kind of thing.

 Sorry if the first post was obtuse.

                          FashionMaven

Mave,
I ain't the sharpest tool in the shed so help me out a little. What is your point? Who are you commenting on specifically? Are you venting or is this a warning for the rest of us?
Obviously, providers that flake aren't good buisness people. Who is it?
Nebulous is your post.
p.s. Thirteen year olds can and do have have children and people do get abused.

No point going on, but why do you want to know who it is? That wouldn't help you understand the question more would it?

 Yes, I am aware that 13 yo have babies but the deceased mother has changes ages everytime she dies.

  FashionMaven