So.. for the second time now I've recognized a woman on a "dating" website from a "provider" website.. wondering what the proper protocol is for contacting her.. if at all..  

would love some input from both sides of the fence.
Thanks in advance

My first guess is photo stealing - the person using and posting the pix on the dating account is likely not the provider the photos belong to.

The next idea is that they are on the dating site as an additional means of business: a "date" contacts them and they explain that they date for pay and possibly link their website.

Another possibility is they really are dating and looking for love, however I would be wary of someone looking for love but using the same photos as for ads.

Lastly - I would NOT contact them via the dating site but would contact them via their preferred provider contact method and link their dating profile. This will show her you are interested and that you want to verify she is in control of the dating account and that the photos were or were not stolen.  

 

I for one have used sugardaddy dating site in the past but only found one guy I clicked with and understood that he was helping me out not making me his personal play thing.

 

Hope this helps!
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If you are talking about casual encounters, seekingarrangement, ashley madison or something like that, it obviously makes a lot more sense than christian singles or match.com.  For the former you will definitely see some overlap.  For the latter, it is likely stolen identity.  And obviously the christian single is not going to a provider's website to steal a photo! :

Yea.. I thought of that too... It's a legit dating site, but I don't think it's pic stealing as there is one common pic between the two sites.. her ads have pics with more um.. skin.. while the others look like every other "normal" pic on that site..  

Just mostly curious.. wondering if others have had similar experience .. or other women "double dipping"..  

Thanks for your reply.

I doubt she is really there to date... She is probably just using that as another way to get appointments.  Also, I have seen other sites steal my pictures and try to get the guys to pay for a membership in order to contact "me" although it's not really me at all.  It sucks because these sites usually will not cooperate if you request they remove your pictures!

The sugar bowl has always been mixed bag, an experienced gentleman can easily discern a lady's intentions.

I used to be on SD, but found it to be waste of time.  I never want to have a free dinner for services, so have a $$$ set before contacting the provider with what you had in mind. No one wants to waste their time.

Some guys have a monthly allowance.  For example: $1,600 a month & we meet once a week every Friday!

Interesting story.  A while back I had a weird experience with a "dating" website. My trainer at the time contacted me and asked me what kind of wine I liked and that he was on his way.. In my head I am thinking "WTF? "Why are you coming to my house with wine and who invited you?"  Well, it turns out he was on a dating website communicating with someone who he thought was me. I guess it was obvious to the person claiming to be me that my trainer knew me so he/she decided to have fun with him. Anyways. Someone got a hold of my pictures and posted my photos AND work number on a dating website. My trainer gave me a link to the site and the profile. I was able to get the site to pull the ad. He is no longer my trainer :/  

My photos have been stolen and used on other sites (provider and dating) more than I can count. That's why I always say if you want accurate info, look at my website. If you see me on a dating website I suggest moving on. I can tell you right now that I will not be the one showing up at your doorstep.  Just stick to the provider ads and keep quiet about the dating ad. Maybe send her an anonymous note that you saw her on a dating site so she can have it removed if it's not her ad??? It's also possible that she really is looking to date. Personally, I would not choose to do it on a dating site. Not because I think I am above dating sites, it's because of posts like this.  

I've been a hobbyist for many years as well as a sugar daddy and you will find many, not just a few providers looking for a sugar daddy. I usually only pursue providers to be my sugar baby. Most of these providers do not want to be in this business and if they have to, would prefer to be with one guy to provide to. Works great.