SMILE 4me!  You have to converse to establish chemistry.  Sharing is caring.

my advise

if you reserve a little time to connect the boom boom time will be so more intense.

chemistry is one thing that exists or does not, if you keep experiencing this maybe try a whole different kind of provider that can bring you out of your shell!

try going for someone who is outgoing, fun and a little wild and if that fails drink a beer or something lol but not to much!!!

Every1 Different....

Chatting is definetly a good thing to do at least a little bit..
talking dirty during sex? many commands or demmands?
well it all dpeends on what he guy likes and wants..
I always ask Exactly What are you Looking For?
And what Can I Do to Make It More of a memorable Experience for You??
WHich in the end will Make my time a unforgettable great One Too..

Everyones different and Enjoys Something Different