..... other than the envelope! LOL. Eyes, size, connection, chemistry, technique, his oral skills vs. his swordsman skills? What is your favorite?

A really thick . . . .  envelope!

makes it feel like a romantic date....
Fredrica

i just got back from buying a red rose for my date with a new lady tomorrow!

Ooo anything from you.....would get me so excited....
Passionately,
Fredrica

It's sometimes difficult to keep in touch but it's helpful even if it's just a hello text/email, a random little gift card in my inbox, a gift from my wish list, a post on my ad complimenting my new photos or encouraging other guys to meet me and many other things. A booking is always great but even just a little attention between dates or after an excellent one makes a difference. I also find twitter the best and quickest way to keep in touch and share the goings-ons of mine and their day-to-day. Twitter has even helped me with meeting other ladies too! So being in contact helps - especially if you plan to book again in future since I don't store texts or emails after a certain period of time.  

The chemistry can happen on many levels, sometimes physical, but most often for me, it's the mental connection that drives the physical.

It's the only asset I care about!  CASH

That's really sweet Kat. I always thought guys should contact the ladies only twice. Once to make an appointment and again to confirm the appointment.There's been times I wanted to share a funny video  or send a quick hello how're you to ladies I like and have seen multiple times  but refrained. I didn't want to fall out of like by being a time waster.Moderation is the key I guess when contacting an ATF?

Finally an honest one! Everything else is such BS. Thanks

Very blunt yes but not sure the other responses are BS. It appears on average the replies that were "BS" have higher review average so the reviewers must either be noticing the "cash cash cash" attitude or are missing out on the "connection"... Just my .02

That's why twitter is so great - you don't have to email at all you can just tweet the video, link or photo to the girl you know or want to know and she will get an update. It's great because there are character limitations so you won't be bombarding her with a long email or anything plus she can respond or just hit the "like" button to know she saw it and you were able to share. I for one prefer not to get emails with links or videos and always suggest to friends to tweet those to me instead and to use email for bookings/screening or longer messages only.

I'm a little surprised by what I see here. In the past, I've read mostly that providers don't like getting texts and emails from us guys except for scheduling and verifying appointments. Is this based more on the provider or the individual client? A combination of both?

HH don't worry about that user, he clearly didn't notice the rating averages of the repliers being much higher than the "money money money" girl. As my post stated her reviewers must have noticed the "money grubbing attitude" or must have been left wanting of more than just paying for her body to have her ratings be where they are compared to the ladies who replied like you who offer more than just a physical journey.  

you say. Connection and all if the other things are important if you are going to be a regular with a particular provider, but I think it would be insincere to imply that money is not the most important asset one can have in seeking out personal services.  My own experience is that most providers will spend the first few sessions sizing up my potential. In other words, am I typically booking one-hour hit-and-runs, or am I booking multi-hour sessions perhaps including some social time where the connection has a better chance of developing.  How often can I repeat, etc.  it's just good business for a provider to be able to assess potential so she will know how to encourage a good revenue stream from a particular customer.  Not very different from other businesses that rely on repeat business. Only two ways to get more revenue:  Get more customers or else get your existing customers to spend more. The latter takes much less time, money and effort if you know what you are doing.

I think the "connection" and "friends" things are nothing more than marketing tools the providers use only to  keep clients coming back, sort of like loyalty programs used by other businesses. Not that there is anything wrong with that. The bottom line: It's not very likely that providers will spend much time connecting or being friendlly with clients unless they are paying the hourly rate for that time. That's just what this business is all about. And frankly, I prefer it that way.

i have a couple ladies i see that i love to send texts to, on special days like valentines & xmas, just to say hello.  they often text me out of the blue just to stay in touch.

at first i thought i'd just reply "you're an jerk off dude" but i think your comment needs a more adult response than that.

I really love someone who loves to Dine
I'm a foodie and a hedonist~

Agreed

Listen, I am not saying that for the most part providers are not wonderful and loving people. Of course they are! There were a couple that did some very nice things for me in addition to the service. Having said that, I also know that most of them will not be hanging out with their clients free of charge. And some new hobbyists waste alot of time and effort to try to do just that. That's all.

Well stated. So very well stated. I hope I never have the situation you did. Having said that, the connections you have made are priceless. All of us here can only hope to be as fortunate.

In CC's defense (although appears she coud care less) her post came within 2 minutes of her post on blacklisting hobbiest that cancel (since deleted).  She was evidently pissed, so I give her a pass, this time.  I've been canceled on and jumped on this board to rant. it feels good...for the moment.

and I very much appreciate getting to know you....from head to toe I enjoy doing deep to find out what makes you happy

i said eofm, mf!

you are a better man than i am mr. roberts.

That's It!!

In my opinion, It varies greatly depending on which demographic of providers you are talking about and then again the individual within that demographic...

Very well put.  I, too, have been lucky enough to experience the generosity of them giving their time from some providers that I had been customers with.  Those kinds of friendships are far above what money can buy.

Money Honey -  

thoughtfulness and kindness is always appreciated regardless how thick the envelope..
PS. To those who can't read.  The OP stated....other than the envelope.

You would think her reply would be more along the lines of enjoying clients who follow through on a booking then, no?  
Just saying...

I didn't bring any of this "new me" when I revived my career here.

this is a good example of why you should not read my posts when you've been drinking.  You will miss the sarcasm and humor and will mistakenly think I am serious all the time.  

up in the first place may be more important in the big picture than the money.  Good point!

Ha - Got you...  

OK when are we meeting? Let me know what I need to do to get cleared?

Why yes it is - It's been called out on my "stories" several times on the LA board by the guy that used to be darthvarder or darklord or something - I think he changed his name...

Like any other envelope, less likely to seal up the longer its been around.  However, many, but not all, of the Kgirl pro's actually "train" muscles they will need for sex, and I have experienced some with kegel strength that I never knew existed.