Can somebody please tell me what the definition of "clockwatched" is ? If you are expecting 2 pops (by reviews) and you are told times up just when things are getting going again. Is that being clockwatched?
If you can't finish the 2nd pop within the time you agreed for the date , then technically the provider is correct and within her rights in saying "times up" Should you call her a clockwacther? That's your call, I wasn't there. Did the session seemed rushed? Did she have a big ole digital clock sitting near the bed? Some providers do. Did she turn on music right at the beginning of the session that so happened to end the same time the date was to end. That's an old trick some ladies use,to keep track of the time. Did she agree to MSOG at the beginning of the date.
I prefer to simply state in my reviews when a lady is generous with her that she was "not a clock watcher " or "she was generous with her time. However, many providers, especially the ones that "are not a clockwatcher"may have let you have a second cup. I never go into a date expecting anything but the full amount of time we agreed to and not a minute more. If you start going into dates thinking otherwise you may find yourself on a providers personal DNS list and when you call for another date, you'll be ignored.
It will be interested to see what the ladies have to say. In the meantime the link is how the urban dictionary defines clock watcher. #3 is interesting as it pertains to the hobby.
I like the pillowtalk but I guess I set an alarm lol
I had a recent experience with a TOP 10 here in San Diego that went like this... She arrives, has a glass of wine, talks, talks some more, ... Finally after 30 minutes we get to the good stuff and she is pretty abrupt with still about 10 minutes left. She gets dressed and its 60 minutes exactly. So she managed the clock the first 30 minutes and watched it the next 20 and then that was it. If this was someone who had lower review numbers or a TOFTT I would accept it but it kinda pisses me off.
And you're correct, you don't expect that from a well reviewed top ranked provider.
my experience was with a top 10 as well.......
.... and our TER ladies will respect you ....
I have friends who I never watch the clock when your having fun!
lol
I guess it was me. Never had an issue before. I am usually the one saying it's time to go. When you are going top 5 and you have done your homework you kind of have expectations..............
i don't know what the issue with that clock is but it won't keep time. i change the batteries but still nothing. i usually set an alarm on my phone if it's someone new so we don't go too over on time (i set it for 5 min after/before the hour depending if my friend wishes to shower)...
clock watching is for ladies who aren't enjoying what they do or aren't enjoying you. clock watching is a constant checking of the time to see "how much longer"... noting the time periodically thru the appointment is normal tho, but staring contests with the clock are a sign to find someone new.
I have no problem with time in general. However if u t with a top rated provider who does multiple pops and then makes no effort to help.......
I guess technically you're not a clock watch, but you admit to keeping track of the time when you're with a new client by using the alarm on your phone. While you have every right to do that, some hobbyist would probably consider you a clock watcher, if you defined clock watcher as someone who keeps track of the time. You just use a phone instead of a clock.
honey, people book an hour, they get an hour. the alarm lets me know we need to finish, not kick someone out. it's there because i, like many of my visitors, have scheduled lives. my meetings are day time when people sneak away from work, or evenings when people sneak away from the family. not everyone have tons of time to idle away, especially if u pay per hour. people need to leave within an hour to an hour-and-ten because of THEIR lives firstly and my time being what is payed for secondly. if someone wants more time they can book longer as is shown in my ads.
why pick apart my reply to this thread? trying to deter business or show me in a poor light? if a lady doesn't keep track of time then she is probablly one of the ladies you sit in your car waiting for, sitting waiting for a room number or the last piece of information. i am organized and budget my time to allow some overtime however i don't count the seconds or go by a pre-timed routine... if we're working on the second pop i am aware time often will go over a bit, but when time is really passing at some point i need to say "are we close, no pressure but we're over time, do you want t upgrade to 90min/2hour or would you like me to warm up a shower for you?" ...
idk. being in control of time and controlling the time are different. i feel ladies reviews would reflect an urgency to get someone out or a comfortable, no-rush wrap-up. so my suggestion as always is to read reviews or someone who interests you and if everything seems to feel right, look right in the services/reviews then go for it.
have fun out there
I find myself watching the clock more than most providers I have seen. I just don't want to abuse the providers time. Heck, half the time they're saying don't sweat it!
I did see one of the top 10 recently on a second visit that clearly was ready for me to go not long after I got there. The first visit was strictly professional and I did not get the GFE feeling that her reviews caused me to expect. After the second visit I chalked it up to chemistry, kept my thoughts about the matter to myself (no review either time) and moved on.
On the other hand, I had a visit once with a provider I have seen several times that, after spending a very long time taking care of her (so to speak) she wasn't going to let me out the door until she had reciprocated. Several times. I thought the gal was going to kill me and I was tired for a couple of days and a bit sore! We went WAY over time.
I say, respect the clock and if you go over, take care of it with a tip! This is a business, after all, and the awesome service that many of the beautiful and talented San Diego area ladies provide should be rewarded.