So, these questions are really for the providers. I'm sure there is a wide variety of client demographics providers see, in terms of looks, age, size, grooming, etc... I'm curious, are most clients older, in their sixties, with guts, having let themselves go? How common is the younger client (say in their 20's, 30's, or 40's), who takes care of themselves physically, shows up to dates well groomed, and has the stamina to make things interesting in the bedroom? I see all these message board posts from guys, but it's often difficult to envision who is making these comments. Curious....
Btw, I didn't mean to imply older gentlemen can't have stamina, be well groomed, etc... Or that younger men, necessarily fulfill these variables. I'm simply trying to get a sense from providers if there is a typical cross-section of the population they see for clients. I would imagine, for example, more costly providers tend to cater to older gentlemen, who tend to have deeper pockets. I'm just wondering what some providers have experienced in terms of the breakdown for their particular clientele.
I am very fortunate to pick & choose whom I play with, so now I only see fellas I feel I have chemistry with.......
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I am a mature provider so I have more older gents only because they appreciate my experience and great attitude. I have seen some younger ones but they tend to not follow through. They change their minds etc. My older gents seem to have more connection with me. I am low volume but I will start using this forum more. There have been some really nice Knights here, that's for sure. Thank you for all your compliments!
I've let myself go years ago after bagging my wife. No need to hit the gym to impress her. Abs are flabs. Lots of red meat, eggs and dairy.
Most guys are normal, so take a look around where you work, live, hand out. Hell, take a look at yourself. They might be a fellow hobbyist.
I think the client base is all over the spectrum. I indeed have seen younger guys in their 20's and even 19. I have seen guys in their 30's up to way older too. I have many hot memories!
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I have known highly rated providers that actually want a picture of you and want to know how much you weigh as part of the screening process. The allegation was that they were tiny (and when we met she was in fact tiny) and did not want someone over 200 lbs. Have also known many that won't see certain races. As a general rule its seems that most would like to see dudes over 40 but my sense is that is because with age normally comes (not always I recognize) a bit of mellowing, level headedness and of course experience. And sorry to say you let yourself go a bit beat. I am over 50, just got done with P90X and am back to my 25 yr old weight and pretty much ripped. Kinda cool and I would highly recommend if you have the mental werewithal to get through it. In the end it is as all in one's head and it's just a matter of showing up each day and doing the work. In the end the hardest part was giving up beer for 90 days.
what clients look like. There recently was a M&G in San Diego, not sure when the next one will be.
Check the M&G there maybe something coming up in LA. Of course, in order to attend, you'll need references.
Pass the screening and afford the donation. Seriously, who gives a sh*t. It's up to the lady who she wants to see, and most escorts who want to make a living at it, probably have fairly wide parameters. I've been to a few M and Gs, runs the gamut as one might expect.
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ah thanks for the p90x commercial and your self serving post
I'm over 35 so most of the guys I see are over 30. I won't see anyone under 21. I think that maybe more older guys have achieved financial success and are able to hobby more often. It's a great time to be an older woman, though. I have MANY clients in their 20's who have cougar fantasies. Something happened to me when I was 31 or 32...it's like a switch got turned on for me, sexually. With my stronger sex drive and the confindence that comes with age I can certainly take control and come on strong at times! I love all kinds of guys though. It is much more entertaining for me to have someone who is interested in giving a little as well as receiving-which most guys are. It can be challenging to spend an hour or more with somebody who doesn't actively particiapate. Even that can be okay if the guy is inexperienced or insecure and I can be of some help in overcoming some of that, because confindence comes from knowledge and I'm happy to help somebody learn how to make me feel good! The one suggestion I'd have for older men would be to not be afraid to try viagra. I've had many older clients who feel they don't need viagra because they are able to acheive erections after a good amount of work. For these guys, I say, "Try it"! You spend too much money on a session to not enjoy every minute of it. Viagra can give you back the strong erections you had 20 or 30 years ago. Even though I know better than to take it personally if someone cannot acheive an erection, it's more fun for everybody not to have to work so hard to keep it up. But it's really about how YOU will feel with a nice big cock that behaves how you want it to. Everybody is so different. What I REALLY love about my job is when I can introduce a client to something they never thought they would go for, but they find they really like it, or, have them open up to me about personal things they never felt they could share-sexually or otherwise.
I certainly got off track. Let me summarize:
1. It does not matter to me what the client looks like.
2. Client should be clean.
3. Client should find an escort in his price range and not barter.
4. Client should attemp to participate even if they feel a little lost.
5. Older guys who have difficulty mantaining an erection should try viagra.
Thanks for letting me share.
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Were all bless to have the connections we do... I'm lucky to attract those that are respectful and clean cut! Business men that Visit SD or LA are my fav! and my regulars here in SD. Less stress.
Age isn't much when there isn't a physical attraction in my eyes... I can't lie. I love men.
Youth is nice- However, the more experrience in life, more the turn on. Being a Mom of a young adult. I don't Like to see men under 29. I feel wierd..
I have been blessed to have Men that i want to attract. Nothing to crazy... Married to single men- that seek no drama, and that love the fact that i'm Low Volume and under the radar!
If it wasn't for this lifestyle. I wouldn't meet such neat business men and be their travel companion/ lover. Its a win win situation...
Class, yet simple, besides friendly. Seeks respectful, clean cut men, to enjoy each other any way we can.
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Vivianna
I hear that Viv!!
It has been 10yrs of knowing each other right?
Little do they know whats behind my pictures..... hehehe.
Hows Buddy doing???? I missSSS playing with him.
I remember when I was only doing FBSM back in 2001, yet I enjoyed putting on little outfits just for us. Then we actually had our first FS... WOW!!!!
I loved the fact that I didn't have alot of men that I would invite over... This was a special time. Now, I still see a few a month...
You never came over with out a nice gift for me. My latina ways appreciatted this! More than you realized.
Sorry, I hope the ladies don't get upset at you.
You know what Chivalry means....
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Surf!