In response to careful time's rant. Hey I know I'm a paycheck but you know what- I still have a lot of fun. For an hour or two, I get to live a fantasy and be with someone I'd never get to be with except for the hobby. Do I wish women flopped all over me- sure, but that isn't the way nature made me. So luckily I have a little extra cash and get to have some fun. Do I think others think like you- a lot probably do. What's you solution to your rant? Should us paychecks quit spending on the hobby and buy Ipads instead? Seems to me it is a two-way street.

Carefultime needs to find a new job she isn't cut out for this business she sound like a bitter woman. I love my job and my clients.