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sexxxfoxxx5155 reads

I do not wish to see or be contacted by any men who can not treat a woman with respect and have a mutually enjoyable experience. If you are  disrespectful......degrading and demanding....I do not need your business. Men who do not have kind words to say and who  treat any woman with  disrespect......should keep their judgemental selfish opinions to themselves..........

OK, might you explain wtf you're talking about?  Yikes.  (I didn't scroll back for prior threads.)

burt20204125 reads

I too would like to know what caused your comment.  I suspect it is in response to the recent review by jmy68 who gave you a 5.  If the review is inaccurate then I think you should set the record straight--especially since this is your first and to date only review.  If, however, the review is essential accurate then I don't think you have any reason to complain.  A 5 would be a responsible score for the session described.  Jmy68 has posted over 15 reviews and I think most hobbyists would generally agree with the scores he has given other providers he has reviewed.  The purpose of TER is for hobbyist to discuss their experiences with other hobbyists.  Every reviewer is not just entitled, but is obligated, to rate a session based upon his own level of satisfaction with the services he received.  The review by jmy68 went into detail and clearly explained why he was not satisfied.  This is exactly the point behind writing a review and how a review should be written.  I wish all reviews were as detailed, and explained as well as jmy68 did what was satisfactory and unsatisfactory in a session.  Again, if the review is not accurate then I urge you should to set the record straight.  If, however, the review is essential accurate then I suggest that instead of complaining because the reviewer was less than enthralled with your performance that you read the review objectively in an attempt to learn why your client's response to the session was only lukewarm.  Businesses spend good money attempting to learn how they can improve--I suggest you adopt the same attitude when reading any review that accurately describes a session.  I also suggest you read the reviews of some highly rated providers.  IMMO if you are unable or unwilling to provide services such as DFK, BBBJ, Russian, and a GFE then you should either get out of the business or not complain when you receive considerably lower scores than providers who offer such services.   Once again, if the review is inaccurate then you should set the record straight; however, if the review is accurate then I think your complaint is an unjustified and unwarranted attack on the reviewer, as I found the review to be an objective account of what happened during the session and do not think the reviewer was trying to be disrespectful, degrading or demeaning as you suggest.

da694473 reads

Everyone should be respected, no matter what race,gender or profession. As long as they are respectful and not hurting anyone

Goldfinger#4096080 reads

Obviously she's bummed about a bad review, "Selfish Opinons",hmmmm,havnt seens ya,wont either-one to boycott

Sounds like a less than stellar review was posted!

I doubt its review related, because everything in the review is accurate about her service. She brought too much of the agency mentality with her.
Such a shame she is very attractive with great DDs, but the assembly line approach will not appeal to the San Diego hobbyists.

Wow! You can really tell that you are angry and bitter. A perspicacious (I love that word) observation on my part, don't you think?  Like others have mentioned, it would be nice to know more about what happened so that way we might intelligently comment about what motivations underlie the event. Obviously, it was a very emotional experience, possibly for both. So, enlighten us all, please.

 I, too, have become somewhat jaded and bitter about some of my experiences with providers, not the least of which is an attitude clearly expressed that they are in it for the money and not the companionship.  How many have been less than honest with their restrictions initially only to later find out that it's an "upsell?"  Men want seduction. Men want to feel wanted and loved ... even though we know we are merely buying your time and "affection." Men want to please their partner. To destroy that illusion that we are somehow desirable or pleasing, however slightly, plays upon our emotions and can cause us to withdraw during the session. Obviously, I don't know what happened, but if there is any hint of an "attitude" on the part of a provider during the session, men may be more likely to treat you like the proverbial piece of meat and perform in a "Wham, Bam, Thank You, Ma'am" manner no matter how wrong that may be.

 There was one session I had with a well-reviewed provider where everything seemed to go wrong. That was my second session with her. The first time, everything was great. I had let her take control and cater to my every whim ... DFK, BBBJ, DATY, CFS in many positions.  She and I thoroughly enjoyed that first session. The second time, I wanted to be the initiator and direct the session, but not in an overbearing way, mind you. Well, she "wigged out" and started crying!  Here we were, both naked and all I was trying to do was please her and she was crying.  I hadn't done anything different from the first session, except not follow her script and went out of order.  DATY first before BBBJ instead of the other way around. It turns out that she was a bit neurotic, to put it kindly. After we discussed "what went wrong," it turns out that the only way she could psychologically handle what she was doing, essentially, selling herself, was to control the session. She had a methodical approach to her sessions and if at all deviated from that mechanical approach, she felt a complete loss of control and would withdraw. All I'm saying is that the human psyche is fragile on both sides of the equation.

 Men are simple creatures, really, but we are not dumb. Flirt. Show affection. Stroke the ego a little. Make us feel wanted. How hard is that? How many of us could really get any woman we wanted? Not many. We know that! So, use your charms, play the game, give us what we want (within reason), get what you want and don't start laughing until you are on the way to the bank. Of course, that's just my opinion, I may be wrong!

sexxxfoxxx3895 reads

Fogy......love what you wrote.....you seem like an intelligent...insightful man.

After reading the review in question, I would think she should be thanking the guy. Others would not have been so kind based on her actions and/or inactions. She should be looking  at his review in a positive way. His other reviews give him quite a sense of credibility. If she is to persue this line of work she might take his review and suggestions to heart. If all she can do is denounce and criticize then maybe she should start thinking about a possible career change...(or start giving it away at the officer's club.)

al434143 reads

Decided to read jmy's reviews.  I have seen some of his providers and he's more than fair.  Seems the provider is really new/rip0ff-in-disguise/ or other personal problem.

Que Pasa4827 reads

the "Old Wife Experience," then you pay through your nose for it!

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