Set up a date with a provider that is always late. Not a problem, I factored in the lateness. Confirmed the date the night before. Drove 35 miles to her address, got a text that she needed more time to get ready, 15 min. Then I get a text that she will not make the date. No explanation, no nothing. If I were to do this I would get black balled.
And maybe now would be a good time to stop rewarding chronically late providers.
I always check the reviews of the providers I go with. This lady had good reviews, they did note that she is some what late, but none of them said she would just not show for the date. I don'the mind canceling, but do it in a respectable time.
as mentioned by beautiful Heather...move on...there are other beauties that will make you forget about negative experiences.
It is rude and disrespectful, to never hear back after being cancelled on.
In this biz it's called a NSNC.."No Show No Call".
It is "blacklist-worthy behavior" for sure!
It goes both ways. #timeismoney
Yes, its part of the hobby, but it still sucks. It would be nice to have a flake section on TER. My time is valuable and I only can set one date a week, at the most. I usually have a back up plan for a AMP, but still sucks. I factor in the flake factor when deciding to see someone. Who was she?
I used to know her pretty well, as she was one of my ATFs when she lived close to me...like literally the next complex over. I'm not sure what's exactly going on with her lately, but when I tried to see her again in 2013 there was two flaked out nights, after which I took a break from seeing the girls here.
I will say though, *if* you can get in to see her, she is quite amazing. Haven't yet met anyone that could match her caliber of enthusiasm. I do know that she had a very packed social life, so it's all together possible that she underestimates what time she'll be available when you book with her.Things can come up for everyone, in my opinion as a provider if an emergency happens than you must let the individual know as early as possible. If it a last minute cancelation than they should make it up to the indvidual. If an individual cancels at the last minute I underetand, and just reschedule. If it constantly happens that is another matter. That is just my thoughts in this.
Price, that's why.
If you think you're getting good bang for your buck with Kylie, you'll overlook the tardiness.
Don't waste your time with Kylie Monroe.
I tried 3 times to meet with Kylie Monroe. Technicallly 4 times after she apologized for yesterday's fiasco and told me to text her later that day.
He first time was earlier this year. Setup the appointment ahead of time. Day of appointment came and she communicated we were still on for the set time. Then When it came for meeting she went silent. Texted me the next day and said she fell asleep.
Second time was basically the same thing except when it came time to meet she said she wasn't feeling well. Ok, fine, I'm understanding and had the same thing happen the prior week where I got sick. No prob. Told her I hope she feels better soon.
Now the third and fourth time. Saw an ad for her and remembered we had tried to connect so I texted and we talked for 2 days to schedule something. Set a day and time. I had to push appointment later on that day and she said the new set time was perfectly fine.
I text her I'm on my way. No response. I text her that I'm in general area she said she's at. No response.
Finally she texts me back and gives me address and apologizes for not being ready and needing some time. I say thats totally fine and I can wait to accommodate her.
She says just text when I arrive and I can wait inside. I tell her ETA 10 min. I text 12 minutes later and say I've parked down the street and will be right there. No response.
I get there and knock. Wait. Ring bell. Wait. Knock. Wait. Call her name. Wait. No response.
In the meantime I hear water running. Ok maybe she's getting ready. She had left her door open and screen locked so I'm baffled how she did not hear me. I text her a few times just to make sure. Nothing.
I decide to sit on her porch and wait. Overall wait time now is about 20 minutes. Still no text. I'm getting frustrated because another provider (Linda TER ID: 321211) just did the same thing to me. The water I heard running when I got there turns off so I figure, OK, maybe she'll text or hear me knock and ring or text now.
NOPE.
I wait another 5 minutes like a moron then I text her that I'm going to wait in my truck and to text me when she's ready. Another 25 minutes goes by and no response. I say forget this, this is now the 2nd or 3rd time she's flaked. Not worth the trouble. Not reliable. Now I'm questioning her truthfulness.
I send her a text and let her know what had occurred and that I was leaving and that I don't appreciate not communicating and tardiness to that extent. I said I hope she is ok and nothing bad happened and would prefer to know she just went through all this trouble to setup a date so she could just not answer as opposed to something being wrong. Still playing the nice guy and trying to be understanding. Don't know why I bother sometimes.
Guess what happened when I texted her later? Nothing.
So what does my dumb ass do? Call. She picks up and sounds like she's super tired and says she prefers texting then hangs up. Maybe a substance was involved like wine or other?
I let her know earlier when I said I was leaving that I would be writing a review stating exactly what had occurred. Then she pulled that BS on me. And like an idiot I took the bait and her word, hook, line and sinker.
After this weeks disappointments I'm pretty fed up and have a bitter taste in my mouth. You can't even rely on good reviews anymore. Probably because they're fake.
With all due respect, Providers DON'T have emergencies! They just overbook, or space out, or let the previous Client overstay their stay, etc.
My position is if my appointment is 900am, I better be inside getting undressed at 900am, NOT 905am.
I had a gal pull that crap on me once, so finally after sitting in my car for 20 min I just drove away, and she had the gawl to text me a whole slew of cursing, so I wrote her a really really nice Review......LOL
I'm sorry, but to many fish in the pond to put up with that kind of crap. They'd do the same thing to you, if you showed up a bit late, they'd say sorry.....
That just sucks. Time is more valuable to me than money since I can only play about once a week, so a time wasting flake is a big deal. Part of the hobby, but still sucks. That being said, when you book with a provider with a reputation for flakiness you take your chances. Kylie Monroe was at the top of my todo list a few years ago, but after a ranting, raving post on another site where she basically said men are skum and take advantage of providers, I took her off. She was back on my radar, but she just moved off again. Life is too short to deal with providers that show so little respect.
Thanks for your post, bet it felt good to get it out.Time is valuable for sure. It's just common courtesy! Which apparently these days is no longer common. Like common sense is no longer common. If she's jaded she should really find another source of income. Why would you even have a job you don't enjoy or you hate?!?!
She pulled a NCNS on me then offered a nice discount. Went to her place in east county. I texted her. 10 minutes later she responds......tells me she's at a friends place in mission valley. So we finally meet 45 minutes later. She tells me we have to do a quicky because I was late. Wtf?