Let me try again

Sorry to post this kind of thing again -- but I am learning more specifically about what I want so . . .

okay, its not just doubles but its doubles where -- how do I say this in an acceptable way, I'm not sure -- where the ladies can entertain each other if for part of the time I just want to watch.  (That's not too cryptic, is it?)

I tried to set that up recently but clearly what I was saying is not what happened in the moment of truth.  I can easily set up a session where its two ladies and its all about me.  Had that, they were awesome, BUT that's not what I am saying here this time.

AND if what I am asking is not an appropriate thing to ask on a board like this, then I apologize.

AND if someone would like to PM me instead, that is cool too.  

AND I know there is a certain twin who gets it, so I am not ignoring that at all with this message.  

Thanks!