Hey guys...where I cum from in TX...we usually have a social every month or other month to meet people in the hobby.  It's usually a good chance for you to at least meet the lady you've always wanted to but never had the chance to visit with.  I've actually ask that on my last trip and people are very cautious about it so...if I host one when I cum back to SD in June would there be a lot of interest?  This is a good way for ladiesto network themselves and for guys to meet the ladies.  Of course you would have to be vouch by the ladies that you've seen.  So if you guys are interested...let me know.  Since this would be the 1st one...I will provide more in details later and I will put most of the $$$ up for hosting it and the gents will just probably contribute about a little fee to help out but the ladies get to cum for free.  Let me know what you guys think.  I would like to meet the lovely ladies here in SD as well as the gents.

and Bacon on the guest list.  And I for one would not attend for that very reason.

dude, that may be true, if it gets out.  she is awsome to be with.

This will be RSVP and location, date, and time will be disclosed a couple of days before the social.  Only the ones that I have seen or someone who can be vouched by one of your very well known local ladies.  Just a food for thought.
xoxo,
Ashley

I know you are very detailed with your screening requirements... as such, you would more than likely be taking a greater risk than you might be comfortable with by hosting a social.  PS-Sorry to have missed you yet again!

What an interesting idea!  I would consider attending, but you have never responded to any of my attempts to contact you for an appointment.  That makes me think twice about this.

I agree stud man dude let's get everybody together in one place and let the doughnut eaters know who all of us are.  By the way I liveed in TX for years and knew lots of providers and never heard of any type of social for hobbyist.  sounds more like one of those deals where they send people, who have failed to appear for a court appearence or such, a notice that they have won a cruise or some other prize and nab them when they show up to collect it.  Sorry Ashley, good idea but not here in SD at this time.  Oh Raz they (doughnut eaters) monitor the DB's very frequently...

For exactly the reason sdstud mentioned.  It's a shame, sounds like lots of fun, but rule #1 has always got to be safety first.  And the LE climate in SD makes this a no-no.

Sounds great and have a potential but not recommend at this time since this is an election year and LE has been very active on this business lately.  So I have to agree with the three gents that safety is #1.

this is a proposal for a social gathering for chit-chat, and there's nothing wrong with that in any way, even if the topics of conversation mirror what we have on these boards (assuming no setting of appointments and such).

Based on other responses, I guess the concern is a mole at the gathering.  If there are solid references, how big of a concern is this, really?  I moved to SD not too long ago; maybe someone can enlighten me with solid reasoning as to why that's not enough.

I guess I'm naive, but I'd certainly be interested.  To me, it's not much different that a meeting among strangers at some happy hour.  The only thing I'd add is that I think the ladies should have references too.  Maybe it would need to be a limited meeting at first among guys who have seen you (Ashley), ladies who can be vouched for by the gents who have seen you and those gents for whom those ladies could, in turn, vouch.

"Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean people aren't out to get you".

See above aspuser's post concerning his new "friend" Heather.

such as nobody knows the location until the last minute, sort of and, as Lacey does her MardiGras, she assigns everyone a 'pin' number in order to attend, etc. - so, with creativity, it could work.

I'm just the odd one out, and would not attend. I prefer to see no one until the day of the appointed date - then I want to 'unveil' and be 'unveiled'. But, that's just me. Seeing someone ahead of time 'ruins' it for me.
I was invited to attend a party in Vegas - a social. It is also my birthday weekend, but I declined for that very reason, among others (I loathe Vegas, for starters).

I think you could pull it off, and have a great time, providing people are confident enough to attend.

Hi,

I would love it! It's been done in others cities and can't think why not in SD!

Just me and hope it happens,
1dogg12

...they were poker parties with hobbists and providers. They were pretty cool. Unfortunately, Miss Moon is no longer doing them because our beloved law enforcement decided to spoil the fun. Why not arrange a get together at Thad's?

Some of us in SD have met socially before, and we had a great time.  I'd do it again.

Due to the ever growing presence of LE here in this city, I agree that it would be at best a risky venture to attend such a social if held here in town.   But.....

....a very safe solution would be a social held across the border in nearby Tijuana where LE has no jurisdiction.  And it could be held at a nice location, catered, etc.

I love the idea of a sd social and in time I can see it expanding into the poker parties, etc, that the now defunct Miss Moon used to host.

I think that new providers and new clients alike should be taking advantage of our geographical proximity to Mexico as a way to eliminate the first meeting anonymity which LE uses to their advantage.

In an ideal situation, a session with a new client/provider would consist of a 30 minute trolley ride with the person you are about to get intimate with,  a nice walk side by side (across the border), a visit to a nice hotel for the main event, and then take another stroll and trolley ride home again. After that, the risk of LE involvement would be almost nil.

If the provider had regular (and reliable) clients who are familiar with TJ, she could walk the new client back to the border and then let him continue by himself, while she did some shopping and waited to meet her regulars.

It certainly would be worth throwing in an extra $ for the providers time in order to be able to meet a provider for the first time.  

In order to avoid no shows, they could both agree to meet a the trolley station in SD beforehand, and if the other person does not show up, then the appointment is cancelled right there.

Thanks guys for your input.  It was just a thought but sounds like it could cause more of a stir than needed...I guess I will have to just meet you guys one on one BCD.

I think this is a great idea. I've often wondered why no SD provider offers occasional service across the border. I have suggested it here a time or two but never any takers. I for one find the "problem" here in SD too much to bother with when one can be free of it by simply going a few miles south.

Mexico is a great alternative, offers all the justice you can afford. Just as up here, but their hands are out in front, not behind their back. I love maexico, at least their honest.

As usual, it looks as though paranoia will get the best of most hobbyists. Why that is, I don't know. Unless you intend on doing something illegal while attending such a function, there is nothing to worry about. What are you people worried about? The cops already know what most of the providers look like and that does not help them. Take a chill pill people and relax.

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