I dont know if it's my age or not, but I find I now need my mind to get foreplay as much or more than my little brain.  I find I'm now looking for providers who will dress erotically and tease me.  I was in Dallas recently and found an incredible woman, Anastasia.  She is 5'9" and with heels, over 6'.  Thing was, she dresses in yoga pants and a lycra top that set my mind ablaze.  There was lots of posing, rubbing, dirty talk that got me harder that any fast bbbj would have.  

I'm looking for that here in SD and have been to 4 providers in 3 weeks.  I can't afford too much more research.  I'm older, so I like it slow and with lots of teasing and erotic play.  The younger providers are a lot about speed instead of technique.  I'm looking for suggestions as these are not in the search parameters.  Up to 3 Rose's is my range.  PM me if you have any recommendations.