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little phil 37 Reviews 2800 reads
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I don't know the players.  I've avoided a lady in the town I'm in due to her lateness.  Almost every review said, "she was late...I almost left...boy I'm glad I didn't".  I recently had an opportunity to see her where time didn't matter.  She was late.  It was worth the wait.  I want to see her again, but the time issue will be a problem.  So to the provider, being punctual is something that you should strive for.  It's the polite thing to do, and will be rewarded with more business.  To the hobbyist, keep that name on your list for when you have an open schedule.

Good luck to you both...

sexystephie3272 reads

I can't believe what I just read. I don't have VIP access (probably a good thing this time) so I was only privvy to the first part.. I probably should just have let it slip off my shoulder but I am curious because of some one elses threats to screw me over... So anyways, My ex will learn... For your info, if, or when, I am late, it is because I am lame and not as you put it "seeing another person". First of all, I rarely see 2 clients in one day, believe me, my rent would be paid if I did.  My joke is always "How do I make another appt. when I know I will be late for the first and  I dont know how long I wil stay". So for you to infer that not only did I see another man, I also did not have the class or good hygiene of taking a shower before I came to you.  If this is a legitimate feeling from someone and not that other someone trying to cause me  problems,please let me know when and where I saw you, who you are, because maybe it will shed some light on what you are saying.  I am not a dirty skank and it is so funny that I just responded to someones post about Sonata agreeing with someone about how hurtful some peoples reviews are.  Not only hurtful for business but hurtful in the heart. You would think I would be sufficiently hardened to this being in the biz for some time... but never has anyone ever said I was unclean or didnt smell clean.  I take offense to that and I would like to chat with you.  So for any one who might wonder about my tardiness, I guarantee you, it is not another man,unless you consider a 7 yr old a man and he would be the only male taking my attention away from someone I have set an appt. with.  I will apologize to everyone I have made wait for me.  I think I more than make it up to you guys in a lot of different ways.  Please forgive my lateness, it is wrong and try as I have been, it hasnt improved much at all.  I don't like that I am and I will try very hard from now on to not be late any more.  Or at least not as late.  And myexwilllearn ... please contact me.  You know how to find me.. just lift your nose and sniff... ha ha that was a joke. Did you write that because I showed surprise at how small your penis was??? Ha ha another joke-oh but I shouldnt have even said it was a joke, I should have just let that comment hang out there for all to see... smelly pussy,small dick.. I think then you would have felt a little bit of the sting you so easily stung me with ..but I, unlike you, think about someones feelings. Something  I recommend you try. I dont mean for any one to censor their reviews but something like this, my being unclean, or someone being ugly, well be light with your words.  It takes a thousand good things said to make up for just one bad one.. All of us should think about that before we really cause some damage to a person.  Thanks  to you all for listening to my rant...Stay safe ( and clean... ha ha ha ha)

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flower child2525 reads

...make love, not war.

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ISCOTT2481 reads

I think the heat has some folks a bit cranky and mean-spirited.  It's a shame that you would even have to develop a thick skin being in the biz.  Of course, once you do that (for your sanity's sake) people will complain that you used to be fun, but now have a cold "stripper attitude."
See if there's anything to the criticism, and if not, move on.  Yes, there are a few mean spirited people here.  I'm sure there's a segment of us that hobby because we don't have the manners or patience for a long-term relationship.  Just a few, I'm sure, so no flames please...  Hell, I'm probably one myself sometimes.

I've got to tell you though, the late thing is what's kept me from calling you.  My schedule's pretty tight sometimes, and I don't have all day to wait.  So you'll find that's a deal-breaker for your more affluent people.  Your reviews are good, but you could attract a high-end segment if you can get the late thing dealt with.  The kind of person that has all day to sit around is probably not a high earner who can afford to be a regular.

Time management can be learned.  Please check into it.  It will transform your career.

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little phil2801 reads

I don't know the players.  I've avoided a lady in the town I'm in due to her lateness.  Almost every review said, "she was late...I almost left...boy I'm glad I didn't".  I recently had an opportunity to see her where time didn't matter.  She was late.  It was worth the wait.  I want to see her again, but the time issue will be a problem.  So to the provider, being punctual is something that you should strive for.  It's the polite thing to do, and will be rewarded with more business.  To the hobbyist, keep that name on your list for when you have an open schedule.

Good luck to you both...

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ISCOTT3212 reads

Just doing the math, if you live in Lemon Grove and the outcall is downtown, and it's an 11am appointment, if you're not leaving at 10:30 you ought to give a courtesy phone call.

In the hobby and in business I give a 15 minute grace period then I'm out of there.  I will actually leave the building just to make the point.  It rarely happens twice.  Especially when everyone has cellphones, it's just common courtesy to let people know.

I am just throwing this out generally, not aimed at you, Steph.

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easycheese2927 reads

Time is crucial.  A provider would not like it if her clients were always late.  It is a sign of disrespect.  I know things happen, That is why we have cell phones.

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fahrkle2304 reads

oh oh, she's a knockout....

She'll be late, get over it.  She'll talk to you like a real person, appreciate it.  She'll do things for you that most GFE's wouldn't even consider.... e.g., like cook/bring you takeout!  And those are just the things that discretion allows me to say.

I usually say, "hey, if you're not here by x-time, I'll either be gone myself or asleep, so don't bother knocking!  I'll catch you another time!"

Decide for yourself, report back.  She's worth it, IMHO.

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sexystephie2530 reads

Thanks..And I am really, really trying but I dont know what is wrong with me.  I think I have Sumtimers..  All of a sudden, hours are gone and I am like, what??? I do tell everyone about my lateness, because I dont mean to take of others time.  That is something I am not.. and that is selfish.  I dont think my time should be wasted and I dont think any one elses should be either.  I also will wait.  For those of you who dont have time for me.. tell me another time and if I actually am there on time, I would wait.  Until I better manage my time, that is what I can offer.  I am really trying.  xoxo

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myexwilllearn2321 reads

I dont know why I feel the need to reply to your post Stephanie, but I will. It is my opinion that you DID NOT shower prior to meeting me at the hotel. If you had, then I am sorry and the heat must have affected you alot more than it does me.
I HAVE NEVER been overly critical of ANY WOMAN on this site. I do however "tell it like it is", and if that is taken as critical or negative... then I am sorry.
I will NOT however apologize for my review. It is my understanding that the men who post reviews are doing it so that others can make an educated decision.
Furthermore, I can see by your comments that I was dealing with someone who is a little more mean spirited and negative than I usually see. OR, your  comments are simply an immature way to deal with constructive criticism. In either case, they were not warranted, and NOT appreciated.

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ISCOTT1546 reads

I have certainly heard lots of good things, so that's why it's a shame that I'll never meet her, because I can't play that time game.  She sounds like a great-hearted gal.  I'm glad the situation works for you.  And I really know nothing about the players here either.  myexwilllearn has some 8's and 9's in his reviews, and sounds like a reasonable guy.  And Steph has lots of fans, so at this point I figure it's two good people who had a mismatch.  The nice thing about the forum is that we can get a good perspective.  So, have fun and be happy everybody :)

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