I stay fairly busy as I have many other interests outside of this, and I would assume others do as well. I'm also not one to post if I don't have more to add (unless, perhaps, I actually have some spare time).
I don't even post ads like clockwork, either, so perhaps I don't fit into the mold, but that leads to what's unattractive about our regional board: the derogatory way in which we ladies are referred to a little too frequently. We are all different. I realize that some of you guys have had terrible experiences. Some ladies look decades older or heavier than advertised. Some make you wait for hours. Some have pimps. Some are on drugs or are crazy. Some are guilty of review manipulation or threaten you unfairly. Some are desperate to pay rent and will do anything. However, to paint us all (or the vast majority) with that brush is overly negative and also inaccurate. If someone speaks up and says that, they are accused of sucking up to the ladies, and some complain the board is too PC. I think that leaves the board with a strange dichotomy of overly mean and super nice trying to counterbalance each other.
Maybe just say some ladies are [insert bad thing here], but please don't lump us all into your bad experiences. Some ladies are crazy, so it's good to share your experiences so others can learn, but many complaints seem petty. If you really are so jaded, maybe it's time to retire from the hobby.
Those who use aliases so as not to offend us: well, we are probably less easily offended than you might think, but on the other hand, only someone very desperate wants to see a man who thinks so poorly of us. I like to see men who love a fallen woman, and I'd wager that most ladies feel the same way; we are still human, you know.