I think I know the answer in general, but was curious to get input from others...
Hobbyists - Why DATY during a session? Playing a little devil's advocate here, but if you are paying for it, why not have the whole session be about her pleasuring you?
Providers - why do you think hobbyists want to pay you to DATY?
lost interest in oral - giving and receiving. don't think I was ever that great at it anyway. I find my partner kinda relieved when that's no longer a "half to" in a session. also a one pop kinda guy - basically a cheap date lol.
Because playing with a good looking female's body is a fun part of the play date. Just like sucking nipples, kissing her neck and inner thighs, and nibbling on her ear lobe. It's your fantasy...enjoy it.
And quite frankly, those who don't allow it or otherwise have never been that passionate about the rest of the act. It's all about getting the motor running before you hit the accelerator...
Simple. For one, much of my pleasure is achieved when the provider is having a good time too. Next I like to pleasure her in that way (DATY) so it is a win win for both of us!
I am sometimes disappointed in providers who strictly want to focus on me. They do not realize that a one sided session can take away from any connection no matter how brief and spoil the fun. The most difficult question for both in the hobby is "What do you like" Sessions can be way more intense when both are enjoying the fun!
I find its not as fun when both people aren't having fun.
Posted By: SampleTaster
Simple. For one, much of my pleasure is achieved when the provider is having a good time too. Next I like to pleasure her in that way (DATY) so it is a win win for both of us!
I am sometimes disappointed in providers who strictly want to focus on me. They do not realize that a one sided session can take away from any connection no matter how brief and spoil the fun. The most difficult question for both in the hobby is "What do you like" Sessions can be way more intense when both are enjoying the fun!
Because I love tuna
I have some friends who spend more than half the time going down or rimming me. They love the taste of my juices and the noises I make while writing in pleasure.
Other friends want it all about them!
I'm open as long as pleasure is at the maximum measure!
A. I enjoy it in itself. It is an intimacy of the first order. The sensual taste, smell and feel are pleasures in themselves.
B. I enjoy seeing, hearing, feeling my partner having pleasure. We're in this together and we should both appreciate each other as much as possible. It's wonderful to have a woman come on your mouth. Her pleasure responses are like applause.
C. My philosophy has always been, ladies first. A lover to whom you have just given an orgasm is much more relaxed and ready to be totally sensual with you.
D. It's something an old man can still do to please a lady. It's the gift that keeps on giving
Is one of the greatest experiences ever!!!
I'm the kind of girl who gets extremely turned on by giving pleasure and watching the effect I have on men.... I love watching my male counterparts lose all control, and by the same token there are many men who get the same awesome feeling when giving a woman pleasure 
There is something wonderful about deriving your pleasure from your partners pleasure and vice versa.....
now I'm all tingly inside lol
As a true oral guy I really enjoy a first class oral only session both giving and receiving but really only enjoy giving DATY to girls who really do enjoy it or at least make you feel like they do. If it's not a girls thing then why waste my time and I once was with a girl whom after going down on for at least 10-15 minutes did not make a sound,move nothing nada! I asked if there was a way she liked it more and she said don't worry I never cum, I said never ever and she said never
What a let down!
I also like girls who will take FIV as I have been into trying to get there G spots lately which if I can hit is is a real turn on for both of us
Posted By: john1234rich
I think I know the answer in general, but was curious to get input from others...
Hobbyists - Why DATY during a session? Playing a little devil's advocate here, but if you are paying for it, why not have the whole session be about her pleasuring you?
Providers - why do you think hobbyists want to pay you to DATY?
I have DATYED/Rimmed away most of the session and in fact I think some ladies could attract clients if they offered this I know I would come and the ladies do love it
Oral is a stimulus for most of us male or female.
I love to offer cock worship because the response I get turns me on. I love DATY because its a different orgasm than penetration.
I am just glad the gents I see love to do it for me and are willing to be taught how to do it for me.
Kiss me til I faint,
Chloe
Yes, Chloe, you said it so well. There is great satisfaction in pleasing your partner. I love seeing her response to a great DATY! Her moans, her eyes closed and her face tensed and her juices flowing down my lips.
There is also ego gratification when this old guy can please a lovely young lady.
Yes, as an older guy I love DATY and DATO. BBBJ and FIV are also big for me.
I was sitting by the fountain at the Ranch 99 Market when a Chinese gent came by sort of singing
"You gotta lick it, before you stick it". My sentiments exactly. I don't know if those are words to a song or if he was just expressing his opinion. In my case, most of my sex life (over 60 years), I only had missionary or doggy sex, no BJ's, very little DATY and nothing else. But doing what I enjoy the most over the past few years has resulted in the very best sex of my life.
I've been told I'm good at it. I don't really know, as it could just be part of the whole experience of being with a provider who has honed her acting skills to a convincing level. In any case, I do enjoy it, although she has to be shaved or at least have the undergrowth trimmed and under control. What I really love is glancing up and seeing a look of pleasure on her face, or even on some occasions, when a provider really lets herself go and gets into it, enjoying the sensations just for herself. Now sometimes I guess its all part of a good act, but for me its sometimes hard to tell. I've been with some providers who clearly did enjoy the experience, and came. That's fun for me as well as I get to feel kind of cool, being middle aged, but having brought a cute young provider to orgasm.
