San Diego

Stood up by Asian Ashley today 12/30/04
AxshunJaxshun 3 Reviews 2975 reads
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          Anyone ever have this problem with her? A strange set of circumstances I might add. It was my supposed to be my first appointment with her. I e-mailed her and provided her with all of the necessary info she requests. She e-mailed me back and said to call her so she could provide me her hotel info. This was on Tuesday the 28th. I tried calling her on Tuesday but wasn't able to get a hold of her. I even left a message, but received no call back. Then I tried Wednesday. Still no response. Then today, I left 2 messages. Still no call back. It's now 4:30pm. My appointment with her was supposed to be at 4:00pm. Very strange. I hope everything is allright with her. I would imagine this is out of character of her since she has such raving reviews. But to not even get a call back or an e-mail informing me of a problem really sucks. I had to rearrange my afternoon cause of this.

but you are right, it is out of character for her.  There was another thread like this a ways back that I remember, but the situation was explained and resolved right here on the board.  I hope that your scenario is resolved positively for you both, as I can personally attest to the quality of Ashley's service and character, which are both impeccable.  Keep us posted.



         According to the e-mail she sent me MSD, she said she had an opening for the 30th @4:00pm so I took it. I even tried e-mailing her yesterday night, but haven't received a response yet. Even tried calling today 12/31/04, but didn't get a hold of her. I'm a little worried now. Hope she's OK.

More likely than not, you unfortunately, maybe, probably said something that made her feel uncomfortable.  And, since you poste here anonymously, you most likey did.



       SDC, I have been a member with TER for quite some time now. The reason why I don't post a great deal on the SD board or even reviews is my personal choice. I have seen quite a few providers here in SD and in LA and gave her 2 very well known references. One of which she knows very very well. I don't think either one of these 2 providers I used as references would've said anything negative about me. Heck, the last e-mail she sent me, she requested me to call her for her hotel info. Just doesn't add up.

I don't know the story, but I do know Ashley.  She is alive and well.  I haven't talked to her about this, but I do know that Asley had to have had a very good reason.  Either you spooked her, or something because she is one of the nicest, most responsible women I have ever met, in or out of this "hobby".  I'm certainly not saying you did anything wrong, but I know Ashley had to have had her reasons.   I suggest you send her an email questioning what happened.  If she responds and explains fine, if not move on.  Not everybody clicks.  In this hobby, especially in San Diego, you have to be careful, and she might not feel "safe" seeing you.  Again, pure speculation.  Imagine the shoe on the other foot.  I know I would be very cautious if I were a provider.  Sorry for you trouble dude, but it comes down to her choice and I have to say - I TRUST ASHLEY (ALWAYS).

You didn't ask her to use condoms, did you?  LOL, she black-listed me for that. :)  Now I just have to laugh when I see everyone saying how nice she is.

It always takes two sides to a story.  I am certain Ashley has a good explaination and we should give her all the credit she deserves, instead of assuming a lot of things and why and why not.
I am more concerned about her being well.

AxshunJaxshun,

Sorry to hear that your appointment with Ashley did not work out.  She has a family emergency so she had to leave town earlier than expected.  As other have said, she is one of the most nice and pleasant to be with and she will make it up for you.  I would recommend you to contact her again when she is in town again.  Beleive me it's worth the wait.  If not, I will buy you a beer but otherwise you own me one.

I can only say Ashley has always been very sweet and professional. Her reviews are a good reflection. This has never come up before with her. Maybe there was a misunderstanding?

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For the last couple of days, I've laughed my arse off to this thread.  First we have someone that got upset because he thought AA's world evolved around his.  Followed by someone else who appears to believe AA compares to his spouse (even ex-spouse).  Then we have two guys who think they have some elevated connection to AA because (1) he won her recent raffle, and (2) because someone else found out she had something happen that required her to leave earlier than planned.  Yes AA is a good provider.  If he is comfortable with you, she will be nice to you.  But she is the same way to everyone she sees.  But always remember that $$$ is why most providers do what they do. Not for any other reason.....so, for you guys that think you are her favorite....here is a reality check for you.

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