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The "Would You Pay" Testteeth_smile
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A gent on another Board posted something similar and it's had me thinking over the last few days. Guys, as you spend the day doing what it is that you do all day long, do you ever catch yourself looking at another woman and evaluating if you'd be willing to pay if she was a Provider?  Once this question was posed to me, I now catch myself out in public, say at Vons, walking down the aisle thinking to myself "nope, yup, nope, nope, yup."

One thing it has shown me, we live a charmed life to have access to time with such beautiful, intelligent women, no matter what the pricepoint.

I wonder, do Providers do the same - daydream about whether they'd accept their mechanic or the checker at Ralphs as a Client lol?

Thats so funny I have caught myself doing the exact same thing to men that I come in contact with while running errands lol....

Ive also looked at the hot chick that bags groceries at Vons and thought "I wonder if she would have what it takes to be able to be an Escort"

I'm Glad I'm not alone in this lol :)

I believe it is my ATF FREE fun thing to, do in life & always wonder what if.......

I think I can spot a working woman, and management immediately too!

I was walking thru a lobby with a young lady - and she pointed out a well dressed very professional woman standing at a column by the entrance and said "she working - see that she's waiting for her Client to come downstairs". Wow lol

In fact I have been at this for so long now I assume all women are providers :)  What?  Thats not true - think about it.  Even your wife / girlfriend is a provider ...

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Why we need to take a break from this Hobby once in a while!

The remuneration package ought to be placed on the service provided and not onto the woman herself! Once we start gauging a woman's worth within the monetary system (i.e, all GF's wives, etc are de facto "providers") we are exercising gender prejudice which is not healthy. Even sex providers are only available to be "bought" when they don that provider hat on their heads. Otherwise, the price of admission is either free or a LOT more than a fistful of Benjamins.

When you say "Otherwise, the price of admission is either free or a LOT more than a fistful of Benjamins."  
I think you hit the nail on the head.  I've been at this hobby for going on 7-weeks, and it has been a relative bargain.  

I'm not sure it's a "gender prejudice." Maybe the male vs. female imperative puts us in this give and take dance where sex is the commodity that is constantly being bargained for.  A bargaining that continues into long term relationships including marriage.  [For me: one night stands tend to be the only time it's free but YMMV.]

What is so refreshing about the hobby is that it puts this bargaining on clear display, for both parties to see.  [i.e. BBBJCIM, CFS for $300 per hour].  Maybe this raw honesty is why we find ourselves looking at all possible "providers" from this fresh perspective.  

I agree that it's not the person but the service that we place a value on.  And this is why it's called "the oldest profession."  And agreed, it's not healthy in the sense that mother nature has all of us doing this give and take dance, and part of the dance [for many] is pretending the dance isn't going on at all...  



Posted By: casinostocks
Even sex providers are only available to be "bought" when they don that provider hat on their heads. Otherwise, the price of admission is either free or a LOT more than a fistful of Benjamins.
So true, so true!

The name's Kill - Buzz Kill (cue James Bond theme.)

So, I was in Boston on my first tour (solo/dolo)  and during some down time popped down to the hotel lounge for some spirits and snacks.  I always love people watching and making new friends, probably not a good thing when trying to keep a low profile. Well, this one particular evening there was this incredibly hot blond sitting at the end of the bar between two men that were obviously boring her to death.  We kept making eye contact and once I realized she was alone and attached to her phone, red flags went up.  I finished my food and asked for the bill.  In my head the whole time I was thinking, I bet she is here for the same reason. Hot, young girl, single at the hotel bar...COME ON!! (The yoga pants and hot pink tank that showed her delicious cleavage did not give it away at all...) Anyways, as I walked towards the end of the bar I dropped my phone on purpose right by her chair, "Oops!" I exclaimed acting like a clumsy blond.  She laughed, "I do that all the time".  The pretty little blond picked up my phone and handed it to me.  We introduced ourselves and then she asked me what I was doing in the Boston area, I replied for work as usual.  She had this sneaky look in her eye so I took the bait and ran with it, asked her why she was there and she replied, "Business" and giggled. I said, "Oh, yeah? And what type of business might that be??" in the most sarcastic, playful tone. We laughed and she said "Do you want to come hang out in my room, I am free for a couple hours?" Granted, looking back on this encounter now I was an idiot for ever blowing my cover but she ended up being a really fun girl.  I later found out the details, she was on her first tour doing massage and slaving for some crazy agency.  We shared stories and worked in the same place for three days meeting up in between her nutty schedule. She was an awesome chick, when I visit LA we hang out (that is her base).  The only downfall was that she doesn't like girls!!!! DAMN!  Now that would have made an amazing story!  So now I am not as brave or as naive to tell people but I thought it was pretty awesome that I KNEW we were there for the same reasons.....

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