I travel all over and see girls from different parts of the US (see my reviews). I recently saw a Socal gal with great reviews (almost all 9 or 10 in both looks/performance) but was a bit taken aback by the discrepancy between the reviews and the reality.
of course I understand that performance is always YMMV and looks is a personal preference, but I feel there is a certain expectation one has when a gal is almost all 9s or 10s in both departments ...I am thorough in reading reviews and cross-checking reviewers (who they have seen, their ratings of girls I have seen, etc), but it just goes to show that even the most diligent research is not failsafe...also this outing underlined the whole grade inflation discussion that we often hear about...i'm not going to write a review cuz she is a real nice gal, but in the interest of sharing info as necessary, hobbyists can PM me if they want...at the same time, some of the fault is probably mine in that my expectations might be a bit harsh (kinda what happens when you see pornstars LOL....)
A final note to this rambling is that I am beginning to see why people have ATFs...it's so hard to find girls that you can personally click with on all levels (right look, age, attitude, pse/gfe, etc)...while I have seen my share of great gals, there are only a select few i would want to see again, and there is only one (the awesome Adriana Deville) I have actually repeated with...probably the most incredible experience i have had outside of Adriana was a super hot 26 year old big tit blonde for 400 roses...much better than some of the gals in 600-700...damn i miss that girl...
to a lot of posts here lately seems to be this; isn't the hobby great?!?! you like ATF relationships? good for you! you like to love 'em and leave 'em? good for you! you want a MMMMMF bukake fest? go for it! you want "your girl" one on one for 24 hours? do it!
The Hobby affords all of us to do what we want. You ladies can run any business you like, make and break any rules you choose, charge whatever. Us Guys can seek out whatever encounter or experience we desire.
In the end, there really is only one rule. Don't judge others for their preferences. To thine own self be true!
funny...just found out that a similar thing happened to someone else by the same provider..how he was tricked into not writing a review, which is kinda what happened to me...i am beginning to think it is unethical for a provider to ask such a thing from a hobbyist who pays for not only the service but the prerogative to write about it...the whole "you said you won't write a review"...i thought that was a one-off thing that happened with me but now i see that this is an MO that this provider uses to protect her reputation...kinda not cool in my book...i am now reconsidering...ill probably get lambasted by her since i told her i wouldnt, and she was friendly and all and i pretended to enjoy it, but it really was a lemon...the more i think about it, and seeing that this is an MO that has been used before, i am now starting to get somewhat irked by the whole thing...in any case, anyone who wants to know more, PM me...forcing someone in to not writing a review is wrong...
Maybe she's 'winding down'...not worried about the long run and keep a good reputation, just focusing on getting as much $$$ as possible before she quits. Just a thought.
Let's see - if a restaurant gets your order wrong and does nothing to fix it then says, "oh, please don't review us" is that appropriate? Or they have a sign up that says "by dining here you agree not to review us" as you watch the cook sneeze into a salad he is making...
THIS IS A BUSINESS.
YOU ARE THE CUSTOMER.
If your session isn't going well or wasn't what you expected SAY SOMETHING. So the session is over, think you can't say anything? WRONG! That's why we have reviews. Until a review goes up for somewhere or someone there is no link for people to there being issues. If people want to know a place is good to eat they look up reviews. Same with this industry. Sure, there may be blogs about the person, but the review page is where the real content of the quality of the experiences is meant to be stored.
Not reviewing a poor experience and not asking for something in return damages the review process for the rest of us who appreciate and love reviews, plus it leads others down a path for an unpleasant experience. You are only helping the person continue bad behaviors by not reviewing.
I have to admit...Goldie makes a lot of sense. Given the nature of what transpires, it's not as easy as asking a restaurant to re-do an order, obviously. But just because you've walked out of the restaurant, doesn't mean your voice can't be heard. Sure it's better to make a point while you are in the store, but we all have different ways of handling things. It's the customer's prerogative to write or not write. Others can judge whether the customer is a just a jaded, disgruntled curmudgeon or a fair but dissatisfied customer...
I agree the reviews are really where the VOC is heard...backchannels and blogs are fine, but I have to agree with Goldie...don't even know her but she's got a pretty good head on her shoulders
Without maintaining the integrity of reviews the purpose of this site is moot.
If someone says "don't review me" let's just remove their damn review page and account. What's the point otherwise?
"disgruntled curmudgeon" I fucking love your vocabulary LOL
I've had several very good experiences with her, so I'm sad to see you had that experience. But I'm glad you posted the review...the only way these reviews can help us is if they're accurate.
I've always felt that escorts have huge balls, walking into unknown situations, seeing unknown guys who could be so many unpleasant things (fat, stinky, creepy, ugly, freaky, needy, old, etc.). You can't click with everyone.
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