Attention Providers--I am looking for a SD lady who will allow the use of a female condom. What kind of experience have you had with them, both positive and negative. Would you be offended if a man showed up for a date with one?

google female condom and STD risks
this link was informative

The failure rate is determined by improper use. The female condom does NOT have a breakage rate. The male condom has a BREAKAGE rate of 2 per 100 and a failure rate of 15%.

When used correctly, both the male and female condoms have the same failure rate. The article is measuring the average use rather than the correct use. While it may be more realistic to measure the average use, professional companions would hopefully be using the product in a better informed manner.

Either way, YMMV. I know providers who have looked down to find the male condom is torn or even gone.